I think it's over *UPDATE* It's not over.

[The Fat el Hombre]

Has she always lived so far away from you bob? Where did you meet her? This has got internet written all over it

 

[SambaBoys]

Has she always lived so far away from you bob? Where did you meet her? This has got internet written all over it

Nothing wrong with meeting people on the internet!!!! lol

 

[MCFC BOB]

Has she always lived so far away from you bob? Where did you meet her? This has got internet written all over it

Yes.

We met, surprisingly, on YouTube. We were friends over MSN for about four months, and decided to give it a shot at a long-distance relationship. It felt like it could go somewhere, so I went the distance and asked to meet her. We spent a weekend together in April 2009, and then a full week in Weymss Bay in August 2009. We then began to meet much more often, meeting (on average) once every two months or so for a weekend.

 

[Cheesy]

Has she always lived so far away from you bob? Where did you meet her? This has got internet written all over it

Yes.

We then began to meet much more often, meeting (on average) once every two months or so for a weekend.

Have to be honest mate, this sounds more like a holiday romance than true love.

 

[MCFC BOB]

Yes.

We then began to meet much more often, meeting (on average) once every two months or so for a weekend.

Have to be honest mate, this sounds more like a holiday romance than true love.

Well, that's what the days of the internet do for you. How often do you reckon I can see her? We see eachother as much as we both possibly can. Neither of us have jobs, so neither of us have money. We've both got other commitments (I have a seasoncard at City, and she family and friends that live an hour away that she sees most weekends), we both have important exams coming up. And we speak every day on the phone or MSN etc.

So looking at that, how many people do you know that would do that? Distance has nothing to do with how much we love eachother, Bugs.

 

[ManCityTom]

Have to be honest mate, this sounds more like a holiday romance than true love.

Well, that's what the days of the internet do for you. How often do you reckon I can see her? We see eachother as much as we both possibly can. Neither of us have jobs, so neither of us have money. We've both got other commitments (I have a seasoncard at City, and she family and friends that live an hour away that she sees most weekends), we both have important exams coming up. And we speak every day on the phone or MSN etc.

So looking at that, how many people do you know that would do that? Distance has nothing to do with how much we love eachother, Bugs.

Bloody hell mate you need to live your life a little. You speak on the phone or MSN, I`m 17 and tbh this just sounds ridiculous if your young you might aswell enjoy yourself this just sounds like one of them old pen pal stories.

 

[Cheesy]

Have to be honest mate, this sounds more like a holiday romance than true love.

Well, that's what the days of the internet do for you. How often do you reckon I can see her? We see eachother as much as we both possibly can. Neither of us have jobs, so neither of us have money. We've both got other commitments (I have a seasoncard at City, and she family and friends that live an hour away that she sees most weekends), we both have important exams coming up. And we speak every day on the phone or MSN etc.

So looking at that, how many people do you know that would do that? Distance has nothing to do with how much we love eachother, Bugs.

Plenty of people at a young age have had long distance relationships that they thought were love. In some ways these type of relationships are actually easier as there's not enough time to get to know what annoys you about the other person and believe me, living with these things this is often one of the most important things in any relationship. Distance does have nothing to do with it, you're right about that. Experience does though.

 

[MCFC BOB]

Well, that's what the days of the internet do for you. How often do you reckon I can see her? We see eachother as much as we both possibly can. Neither of us have jobs, so neither of us have money. We've both got other commitments (I have a seasoncard at City, and she family and friends that live an hour away that she sees most weekends), we both have important exams coming up. And we speak every day on the phone or MSN etc.

So looking at that, how many people do you know that would do that? Distance has nothing to do with how much we love eachother, Bugs.

Plenty of people at a young age have had long distance relationships that they thought were love. In some ways these type of relationships are actually easier as there's not enough time to get to know what annoys you about the other person and believe me, living with these things this is often one of the most important things in any relationship. Distance does have nothing to do with it, you're right about that. Experience does though.

But long distance relationships do work. I know the things about her that annoy me, but when we're together, they go flying out of the window.

Well, we'll see how it pans out. You might be right in the years to come, but honestly, I'm willing to wait until that happens, because I'm enjoying where I am. My life is amazing right now, Bugs, and I couldn't ask for more. If it all comes crashing down, then so what? Life is like that. I love my girlfriend, Bugs, and whether you agree with me or not, you're not going to be right. Just because you've seen people who thought they were in love doesn't mean I don't love my girlfriend like you may love your partner, or how others on here might love their partners.

No matter what stage you're at in terms of marriage, relationships etc. love is the same feeling, brought together by a large series of emotions that bring hearts and minds together, despite the imperfections and differences.

I'm already willing to make committments to my girlfriend, and I honestly don't care how stupid I look. I'm not repsonsible enough yet to say, take care of a house and a child, but if me and my girlfriend can carry on the way we are and get there, then I don't see why it can't last.

I'm not one that believes in soulmates, but the girl I have now is a good one. She doesn't lie to me, she doesn't cheat on me, and she shows me how she feels in ways that I couldn't have thought of.

If it all goes tits up, fine. I'll concede that you were right, but for now, I don't think you could be more wrong - with all due respect.

 

[Cheesy]

Plenty of people at a young age have had long distance relationships that they thought were love. In some ways these type of relationships are actually easier as there's not enough time to get to know what annoys you about the other person and believe me, living with these things this is often one of the most important things in any relationship. Distance does have nothing to do with it, you're right about that. Experience does though.

But long distance relationships do work. I know the things about her that annoy me, but when we're together, they go flying out of the window.

Well, we'll see how it pans out. You might be right in the years to come, but honestly, I'm willing to wait until that happens, because I'm enjoying where I am. My life is amazing right now, Bugs, and I couldn't ask for more. If it all comes crashing down, then so what? Life is like that. I love my girlfriend, Bugs, and whether you agree with me or not, you're not going to be right. Just because you've seen people who thought they were in love doesn't mean I don't love my girlfriend like you may love your partner, or how others on here might love their partners.

No matter what stage you're at in terms of marriage, relationships etc. love is the same feeling, brought together by a large series of emotions that bring hearts and minds together, despite the imperfections and differences.

I'm already willing to make committments to my girlfriend, and I honestly don't care how stupid I look. I'm not repsonsible enough yet to say, take care of a house and a child, but if me and my girlfriend can carry on the way we are and get there, then I don't see why it can't last.

I'm not one that believes in soulmates, but the girl I have now is a good one. She doesn't lie to me, she doesn't cheat on me, and she shows me how she feels in ways that I couldn't have thought of.

If it all goes tits up, fine. I'll concede that you were right, but for now, I don't think you could be more wrong - with all due respect.

Honestly mate, I hope it does work out for you, and it does do for some people of course. I'm not putting my view across in order to be proved right! I'm just saying, as others are, that at a very young age, it may be best for you not to become so involved as in 99% of cases it doesn't work and people just get hurt. There's enough hurt in store for you when you get older so don't invite it into your life now :-)

 

[Kinky Dribbler]

If it all comes crashing down, then so what?

We'll no doubt be treated to another classic thread!