Is life better with or without kids?

[Bill]

they are not worth the trouble.

You don't mean that !

wanna bet.

 

[BimboBob]

Am going to be in the minority, being as I am without kids and never having had any desire to have any, either. Just don't feel the need. If I want something so dependent on me, I can raise a pet.

With you on this. Never wanted kids, if I need them I see my Brothers little shits or my Brother in laws darlings.

 

[jayblue]

Am going to be in the minority, being as I am without kids and never having had any desire to have any, either. Just don't feel the need. If I want something so dependent on me, I can raise a pet.

With you on this. Never wanted kids, if I need them I see my Brothers little shits or my Brother in laws darlings.

With you on that. Never liked em, never have, never will.

 

[foxy]

Am going to be in the minority, being as I am without kids and never having had any desire to have any, either. Just don't feel the need. If I want something so dependent on me, I can raise a pet.

With you on this. Never wanted kids, if I need them I see my Brothers little shits or my Brother in laws darlings.

Don't you have to have sex to have kids Bob? ;)

 

[surrounded by idiots]

Yes, a very small, tiny, selfish part of the time, but NO the vast majority of the time

 

[BlueHammer85]

Sorry to hijack this thread but I don't want to start a topic about this.

I'm seriously considering going to see my ex girlfriends kid over Xmas just to see her and give her a present.
Is this a good idea or not ???

I haven't told my ex yet, but I know she would be fine with it. It's just whether I think it's the right decision - my situation was explained couple pages back.

Girlfriend left me for another bloke, but i raised her kid for 3 and a half years. I haven't seen her for a few months now. It's killing me loads and I'm desperate to see her. But I really am 50/50 as I don't want to confuse the kid , but as it's Xmas I'm sure she'd love it if I popped over quickly dropped of prezzie then she has rest of day with her family etc. Obviously gonna take advice with my mum and dad etc but always good to get feedback on here.

 

[stony]

Sorry to hijack this thread but I don't want to start a topic about this.

I'm seriously considering going to see my ex girlfriends kid over Xmas just to see her and give her a present.
Is this a good idea or not ???

I haven't told my ex yet, but I know she would be fine with it. It's just whether I think it's the right decision - my situation was explained couple pages back.

Girlfriend left me for another bloke, but i raised her kid for 3 and a half years. I haven't seen her for a few months now. It's killing me loads and I'm desperate to see her. But I really am 50/50 as I don't want to confuse the kid , but as it's Xmas I'm sure she'd love it if I popped over quickly dropped of prezzie then she has rest of day with her family etc. Obviously gonna take advice with my mum and dad etc but always good to get feedback on here.

Not a good idea at all. I know you raised her mate, but the hard truth is that she isn't yours. Your ex won't like it and it will confuse the kid. Send a present round via a third party by all means, but personally I think its a bad idea to go in person.
Stay away Mark, for your own sake as much as anything.

 

[kaz7]

Have to agree with stony mark,don't do it mate

 

[jimharri]

What's that line out of True Lies; "Kids, sixty seconds of pleasure, 16 years of misery".







60 seconds? Fuck me, I'm going wrong somewhere.

 

[TangerineSteve17]

I agree with Stony's advice Mark for what little that's worth. If I was in your position I would want to see the little girl on Christmas Day too, but I'd imagine her mum and new father figure wouldn't want you to pop round, on Christmas Day of all days.

I don't really know mate. I don't envy your situation.