I need to be a little careful as I don't want to break any confidences, and I certainly wouldn't suggest anything that contradicts them being brave. While a lot of the sexist stuff was clearly intended, the racism, homophobia, disablist comments were more casual. Ironically it appears that a lot of the disablist stuff comes out when people are aware that they maybe shouldn't use race/sexuality as a slur.Can you give direct examples that you have witnessed? As an ex serviceman I can tell you that whilst there are some (Very few) incidents of fuckwittery in the main the lads I served with were exceptional brave people.
As for "Questioning" your superiors, it's the army it wouldn't be effective if the ranks questioned everything they didn't agree with, indecisiveness would cost lives. Again where have you seen this behaviour?
My comment about questioning was also meant to acknowledge the fact that it's not a culture where you can challenge. Many of the issues I saw were used when people were being told off, or "encouraged", and I totally understand that it makes sense to do what you're told without second guessing everything - hence why the responsibility rests with the people giving out the orders.
I wouldn't suggest these are bad people at all, I was just amazed that the culture is still so dated - and from discussions with more senior officers, I appreciate that the will is there from the top, and it's a work in progress, in a culture that's clearly a lot more difficult to change than most.
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