My mum died of dementia but whilst she was suffering she had a great care package at home, it was very difficult to find a care home around here that ' catered ' for dementia patients. Couple that to the fact that I, who had POA, at whatever cost didn't want her in a home, we lived 200yds away after moving from Spain to look after her.
Her deceased husband had left her a bank managers pension but the house was left to his estate, 1 daughter and 2 sons, she could live there free until her final day. She had about £100k in stocks and shares and an income from pensions of about £25k. This all needed controlling by yours truly as she had no idea about anything by this stage....
We took advise from her bank manager, her/our Financial advisor, solicitor and doctor......
Eventually we used to withdraw £400 per week, gave her £100 in cash for her purse, she felt comfortable with some money...the rest we basically put in shoe boxes hidden in her loft and as long as there was about £3k in her account to pay the bills etc, everything was fine. She/we ended up with about £16k of £20 notes which we eventually split upon her death between myself and sister. The fun really began when the banks decided to change the £20 notes and we had to go in the bank on a regular basis with wads of old £20s and change them. Fortunately everyone in this one horse town knew everything about my mum and all was well.