Prestwich_Blue said:
Brucie Bonus said:
ballinio said:
Jesus , its like the Man city christian society on here tonight.
Non-smokers mate, self-righteous pricks, little Napoleon-complexes walking small in these days: eyes of eagles when it comes to the faults and vices of others, and strict justice
must be applied; blind as bats when it comes to their own faults and vices - and when found, cry "mercy". Self-righteous prigs:
definite "I was only obeying orders" types. There ought to be a wanker section of the ground (coutnry) where all these twats can go and be by themselves and congratulate one another on their righteousness and purity, and thank God He did not make them as other men.
I bet you're one of those who, if stopped for speeding, berate the coppers and tell them to go and catch some
real criminals.
Then you'd lose your bet; and If you don't know the difference between
malum prohibitum and
malum in se, then you're in good company.
Location, location, location, and context, context, context; I wrote about a particular type of non-smoker; the kind ballinio saw on here and termed "the Man city christian society": smoking is nothing more than a smokescreen for these types; health and smells is just a cover.
I do not smoke around non-smokers, unless it is with their consent (which I never ask for, as some really
will feel uncomfortable saying "no", even though they shouldn't), and even then I'll excuse myself and leave the area. I do not smoke inside my house or anyone elses. I do not smoke in restaurants. I only smoke in pubs or bars after asking if it is okay (in some places over here you can't regardless of the landlord or other patrons). In bars or pubs that do permit smoking I locate the air-purifying system (which work amazingly well) and get as close to it as I can. I do not abuse my boss or co-workers by nipping outside every few minutes for a tab, but I wait for regularly scheduled breaks. At my current job I asked my boss If I could split my lunch hour into four 15 minute smoke-breaks throughout the day and that was agreed to...I even spend a good five minutes of those breaks walking quickly to try and get some of the smell out :-). I do not smoke around children - not my own, nor anyone elses. I take care to make sure I cannot be seen. When I am outside having a smoke and a non-smoker is outside, on a cell-phone or something, I make sure I am down-wind of them. I do not toss my fag-ends on the floor, etc. etc.
Generally, the unwillingness to permit exceptions, or to provide smoking (pipes, cigars, cigarettes) areas well out of the way of non-smokers, has
nothing to do with health or safety
or inconvenience but is about power, control, and in many cases (I suspect) "getting even". Humans love to control one another...for the "common good" and for health and safety reasons.
No one is perfect in prudence (practical wisdom) or temperance, and there are few who do not practice some form of self-medication (whether they preen among bottles of high-end cologne, raid the fridge, have a bit too much to drink, practice dangerous activities for "the rush", look at porn and condone organized crime and abuse within families, sleep-around etc.), but I am always amazed at how shallow SOME non-smokers are in that they scream blue-smoke-murder and point to studies about passive-smoking, whilst they ignore the terrible physiological effect smoking has on
many smokers, and the obsessive-compulsive-associative psychological element; rather, they look with contempt at smokers as men of little will (smoking is the thin end of a life fallen to dissipation and disorder) and even less sense, whilst glibly pointing to some bloke who smoked 40 a day for 20 years and just quit overnight - as though that proves something
other than a bloke who smoked 40 a day for 20 years and just quit overnight, quit: and the subtext in all this is no more than, "You smoke, you are weak-willed; I do not, I am strong-willed: he quit, it is
all in the will".
Live and let die, eh?