But he is a very different character to Grealish who always had a selfish streak (can see that with how he acts off the pitch).
What, the stuff he does with his own time and money for fans and charities?
Grealish has done some stupid shit in his time but more what I'd characterise as reckless and unthinking than selfish. And both on and off the pitch since he joined us, criticised as he may have been for various things, selfishness hasn't been a problem.
A football career is what? 20 years if you're lucky from signing your first professional contract to hanging up your boots?
No shame in sticking with a club you love. But equally, it's not selfish to want to make the most of that time, to play at the highest level, to test yourself against the best in the world, to win trophies and medals, and to earn enough money to keep you and everyone you care about financially secure for the rest of their lives.
When I left my last job for a new one where I would be more challenged and earn more, the people I used to work for didn't turn on me and accuse me of selfishness. It's a completely sensible and common career decision.
If Phillips does leave Leeds, it's not going to be because he suddenly becomes selfish. It'll be because it's what he wants to do with his career, and like anyone else he has a right to make that decision.