Some things don't add up here.
didactic said:
She met him at Bijou while out with friends he chatted her up. You are telling me about a lifestyle I live having read it from a book. I go to these clubs my cousin was messing with this chic and cut her off because she wanted to get serious and settle down and have a family. She is no party girl, my cousin has a normal 9 - 5 job. She is not a gold digger nor "an aspiring socialite" she is an A grade student who has done some modelling work. Her friends went to the papers after she asked them who he was and why he was so secretive. Ever wonder why the only pic she has of him is in the shower? He would delete pics of them together and not allow her access to his phone etc. You seem naive to the power of a slick tongue and emotions with women. He only gave her gifts any man would and she even gave back a £1000 ring he gave her after she found out he was married. (typical gold digger behavior right). Do not make assumptions on people you have never met nor do not know.
So you are saying she was seeing your cousin at the same time she was seeing Kolo?
Or that she started seeing Kolo after your cousin stopped seeing her?
If so, that was some time a go!
You say that she is a grade "A" student (when did you see her grade results?). Yet she wasn't smart enough to detect some very odd behaviour from a very rich "car salesman". Girls know when something is not right. It's the little things like a great big indent were the wedding ring goes. Deleting photos off HER phone. Only meeting up when HE phoned. Never taking her to public places, and covering up when entering and leaving her place. To let this go on for two years just doesn't add up.
You say she asked her friends to find out who he was. Why, if she is so smart, does she need for her friend to get answers? Where did they even think to start looking. Don't forget, she wasn't aware he was a footballer. She didn't know his real name, and only had one photo.
Would you agree it would be more believable if one of her friends recognised him after reading a newspaper/Internet. Then told her who he was!
Assuming these were close friends, then they just went right ahead and contacted the press without her knowledge right?
More like she was well aware of what was happening and decided to spill the beans once he dropped her a like a stone.
The amazing bit is that you state "Shame she doesn't meet the standard of all you bluemoon hunks. I am proactively trying to hit it to me she is attractive and was to Kolo too. One mans meat and all that."
So you like sloppy seconds then?
Your cousin drops her, Kolo drops her and you are ready and waiting to swoop in. From reading your posts, you are one of the most sexually active members of Bluemoon. So what are you after then? Doing it (or should that be "hitting it") and then moving on as well?
Poor girl, she will be emotionally wrecked for years. Dumped by your cousin/Kolo and you..."oh the humanity!"
