Missing Girl found, bloke arrested.

[hgblue]

The age of consent is about as relevant to this thread as the price of fish. We trust teachers to look after the best interests of our kids at an age when they are very sexually vulnerable, and there's absolutely no way we'd allow them to spend so much time with any other adult we don't know. They are bound to become infatuated from time to time and for this teacher to breach the trust that's been placed in him by this girl's parents is a shocking betrayal. If this was my kid, he'd be eating his meals with a straw for the next six months. Fucking wanker.

 

[allan harper]

Maybe actually do your research instead of letting us know what is not going on in your head:

I fucking howled with laughter. Should check the age of consent in the Vatican...

So if you had a mature 15 year old daughter and she was doing the same as this girl,but he was say a joiner not a teacher,and they were dating.....

You have no problem..
You wouldnt go to the police?

I wouldn't go to the police, I'd probably go to jail though.

 

[Skashion]

So if you had a mature 15 year old daughter and she was doing the same as this girl,but he was say a joiner not a teacher,and they were dating.....

You have no problem..
You wouldnt go to the police?

My daughter with a joiner? A working class profession. She'll see the back of my hand before that happens.

 

[Rascal]

So much of this debate in my opinion is about law and hard nosed facts.

But little has been said about the possibility that these two people are actually in love and clearly seeked to make a life together because of that.

If they are in love how can anyone moralise on there love.


I hope if they are they can weather the storm thats surrounding them and make a happy life together

Good post Rascal, I think many are missing that possibility, even though he should never have allowed it to happen, sometimes it just does.

The only thing I'd add, is that this fella obviously struggles with the term "love", since he was only recently married, I dread to think what its done to his current wife.

It comes over from what little we know, that he is a pretty immature individual even at 30, and that is another whole argument. Some girls are pretty mentally mature at 15 (no idea if that applies to her or not), others are still immature at 20, and most women can be pretty manipulative where the "love" term comes up (no offence intended ladies). Its the same with mental maturity of lads, though I would say its much rarer to see mentally mature 15 year old lads, its more like 20-25 for lads.

Therefore the law has to draw a line, and it has, at 16, and it doesn't strike me as unreasonable, and he has crossed that line.

Thanks mate.

That is a good point of yours too. I was considered mature enough at 14 to go on holiday by myself and stay at my girlfriends house, she was a year older than me.

People grow and develop at different rates, some lads i knew at 18 were still young boys in the maturity stakes, a couple were already cynical middle aged men.

Saying this though, i dont think i really grew up and realised it until my late 30s

There does have to be a limit for the sake of the law, but thankfully our law is not rigid and can be interpreted according to circumstance

 

[SWP's back]

Maybe actually do your research instead of letting us know what is not going on in your head:

I fucking howled with laughter. Should check the age of consent in the Vatican...

Oh yeah I forgot that!

For those that don't know, it's 12 and fairly catholic.

 

[bernabias home shirt]

So if you had a mature 15 year old daughter and she was doing the same as this girl,but he was say a joiner not a teacher,and they were dating.....

You have no problem..
You wouldnt go to the police?

My daughter with a joiner? A working class profession. She'll see the back of my hand before that happens.

My brother in law earns £60'000 a year as a joiner
And he does 4 day weeks

 

[Skashion]

Oh yeah I forgot that!

For those that don't know, it's 12 and fairly catholic.

I just checked that and I'm not sure it is anymore but it was until very very recently, when it was still quite Catholic. Now, I think it has the Italian laws which are 14, but 13 is legal as long as long as the person is less than three years younger, so a thirteen year old can fuck a ten year old... Now that is fucking iffy.

 

[mackenzie]

So much of this debate in my opinion is about law and hard nosed facts.

But little has been said about the possibility that these two people are actually in love and clearly seeked to make a life together because of that.

If they are in love how can anyone moralise on there love.


I hope if they are they can weather the storm thats surrounding them and make a happy life together

Good Grief, your another one missing the point completely here, teachers are not allowed to form romantic relationships with their students for very good reasons! It's not love it's child abuse pure and simple, she is a 15 year old child he is a 30 year old man

Absolutely spot on Ducado.

 

[Skashion]

My brother in law earns £60'000 a year as a joiner
And he does 4 day weeks

I wasn't being entirely serious.

 

[SWP's back]

So if you had a mature 15 year old daughter and she was doing the same as this girl,but he was say a joiner not a teacher,and they were dating.....

You have no problem..
You wouldnt go to the police?

My daughter with a joiner? A working class profession. She'll see the back of my hand before that happens.

My brother in law earns £60'000 a year as a joiner
And he does 4 day weeks

Then he can date my imaginary 15 year old, provided I imagine she is mature.