Not 'losing' at all, and certainly not 'going personal'. I'm simply pointing out that people with different backgrounds / levels of education frequently have differing views on matters.
I get the impression that (like many others on here) if Phil Foden was your lad, you'd probably pat him on the back and maybe even celebrate his 'laddish' behaviour. If he was my lad, I'd be exceptionally disappointed with him.
I think this whole situation makes Grealish and Foden look like City's version of Dumb and Dumber. That's my personal view. It's just that my expectations of behaviour and standards are clearly different to yours.
There are no 'winners and losers' in this mate, just multi millionaires setting bad examples.