Perhaps demanding that a 20 year old kid lives up to being City's greatest ever player on the pitch, and one of the least contentious players ever off the pitch is not a great way to go about things?
He already has the pressure of being England's great big hope to deal with on top of his club fans holding him up Silva every time he does something.
Lampard's one of the most respected English players of the last 30 years and he had a sex tape with Ferdinand and Dyer at 22 and was thrown out of a hotel for drunkenly abusing yanks after 9/11 at 23.
Gareth Barry, the most boring player in history got drunk and stole a taxi.
And god knows what other kind of stuff Barry, Lampard and even David Silva would have gotten up to as 20 year olds in the days before social media and everyone in the world having a cameraphone.
Demanding absolute, whiter than white inhuman perfection from someone every day of their lives is a one way road to crushing them under an absurd, manufactured pressure.
He will make mistakes, this won't be the only one. You just have to trust the club/Pep and England/Southgate will discipline him when he needs it, keep his feet on the ground and try to keep him roughly on the straight and narrow.
Great post. Spot on. Of course I'm disappointed, and everyone of course has the right to be, but as long as he learns from this then fair enough. Thankfully for us, our mistakes aren't played out in public, and I can guarantee you we all have something we regret in life.