Possible Work Place flirting

[Bigga]

You keep talking about women in general. When was the last time you liked a woman in your real life?

I dont mean on Bumble or social media. In your real life

Right now, I have two that I like in my "real life".

What's your point?

 

[Thorin Oakenshield]

Right now, I have two that I like in my "real life".

What's your point?

Are you more or less nervous approaching these women, than approaching a woman on bumble?

 

[Bigga]

Are you more or less nervous approaching these women, than approaching a woman on bumble?

What's the point in being nervous? They're Human Beings!

I don't get why after 5 years of things not moving forward, you haven't changed tact.

Have you posted a pic of yourself as you keep claiming to be that "ugly"?

 

[Thorin Oakenshield]

What's the point in being nervous? They're Human Beings!

I don't get why after 5 years of things not moving forward, you haven't changed tact.

Have you posted a pic of yourself as you keep claiming to be that "ugly"?

That's not an answer! If you have women in your real life that you are attracted to, then you must understand the risk of making those particular relationships awkward.

Posting a picture to prove my ugliness?! Do you think I am secretly a beautiful man?

 

[Bigga]

That's not an answer! If you have women in your real life that you are attracted to, then you must understand the risk of making those particular relationships awkward.

Posting a picture to prove my ugliness?! Do you think I am secretly a beautiful man?

You don't seem to get that 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder'. That means it's not just aesthetics in nature where that holds true.

You could have the prettiest face and most awful personality.

You could have an average face and wicked personality.

Who wins?

I've seen some average guys with some super looking girls and with ordinary girls. What matters is conquering your self defeatist attitude.

That will never be a winner for the person you want.

 

[city2]

Fuck has he shagged her yet

 

[Thorin Oakenshield]

You don't seem to get that 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder'. That means it's not just aesthetics in nature where that holds true.

You could have the prettiest face and most awful personality.

You could have an average face and wicked personality.

Who wins?

I've seen some average guys with some super looking girls and with ordinary girls. What matters is conquering your self defeatist attitude.

That will never be a winner for the person you want.

I am a cynical man

If beauty is in the eye of the beholder as you claim than my work colleague is the best chance to prove that

In my experience women generally have more than one guy sniffing around, it is far more likely they will choose the most handsome option.

 

[Bigga]

I am a cynical man

If beauty is in the eye of the beholder as you claim than my work colleague is the best chance to prove that

In my experience women generally have more than one guy sniffing around, it is far more likely they will choose the most handsome option.

You've said she's an older woman. If she was in her 20s/ 30s, I'd be more inclined to agree.

She is not and she'll have a clearer idea of what she wants in life.

At one point you'll end up being sick of your own cynicism, believe me.

If you're already talking to her every day and you don't really talk to her outside of work, it's you doing that to yourself.

It's up to you, fella.

 

[paulchapo]

This thread is a classic, a bit like the dating disasters one. I'm still not sure if it's a wind up or a genuine heartfelt appeal for help from a bunch of hard nosed football fans, which seems an odd choice for a clearly sensitivity soul as the op.

 

[york away to this!]

Yawn...