you tell her you want to take it further, if she signals she's in then you carry on with her, if she resists that notion, walk away.On a side note, how would I know that a woman is interested in me? I am very poor at these. If a girl wants to go to dinner with me without telling its actually a date, does that mean she is interested in me?
Or when I tell her that I am moving to a different state for a job and her response is she will visit me some weekends, does that mean she is giving me signals?
Royster, surely the next move was on you (apologies if I have missed anything at the speed of light that move when around women ;-) )?So not only have I not heard anything from her since she sent that thumbs up text but it seems like she is trying to avoid me for some reason. Is it because she doesn't want to go or is it because I didn't follow up with her after that text? I was planning to ask her in person but don't know if I should now.
There is no twist with a woman who seems to be doing all she can to get you onside bringing her friend. As mentioned....stop over thinking it, run with it and see what happens. She just might feel more comfortable initially with her friend there and who knows.......So an update. I was unable to book a restaurant because I have been very busy lately with my life (my parents COVID diagnosis made things worse). However all of a sudden she shows up and asks me if I wanna go to that restaurant I talked about.
So I booked a table for 2 and we are about to meet up this Tuesday. However I still don’t know if she thinks this as a date or not.
I am planning to visit Europe next year and asked her today if she wants to join. She has said yes but suddenly texts me in the evening saying that we ahould go grab some drinks sometime after her shift ends. The twist here is she is also planning to bring her co-worker whom she thinks I would enjoy. Is this a sign that she is trying to set me up with her co-worker and politely implying that she is not interested?