I am saying that referees are regularly not making decisions and are waiting for VAR. It’s not an opinion, it is happening. It happened many times today. It has happened many, many times this season (and not just in the PL). I was offering conclusive evidence that they are not following the protocol you are referencing.
You tend to respond with arguments leaning on what should be happening whilst many of us are discussing what is actually happening (with mounting evidence). We all know what should be happening. That is why your posts seem naive (at best).
VAR has fundamentally changed on-field officiating, regardless of where you stand on the “is VAR used for the manipulation of match outcomes” debate.