Yeah my mum married ‘beneath her’ when her and dad got wed. She was from a very respectable petit borgeois Christian home. My gran and grandad both used to play bridge at the golf club and have boiled eggs and grapefruit for breakfast. Sounds like my idea of hell.
My dad was from a working class family who lived hard lives in unconventional ways. Both my paternal grandparents were hard as nails. Grandad was a wife-beating, alcoholic, inveterate gambler. They used to have a really busy shop in Hulme and grandad used to frequently spunk a week’s takings up the wall in an afternoon at a race meeting. Such different upbringings socially, my mum and dad.
Their 50th wedding anniversary this year.