I have purposely avoided posting too much in this thread, it was opened on the 15th October 2024 and has ran to 9 pages in the months following. It Shames us all.
Poor Isabella Jonas-Wheildon didn’t even get a thread….
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c07gzr5r9eko
As you say, it does indeed shame us all.
The other problem is people think this is a rarity and are thus outraged for a week or two.
Truth is child abuse happens every single day and is, almost always, done by somebody known to the child.
1 child a week is murdered in this country and children under 1 are the most likely age group to be murdered. Child homicides are most commonly done by the childs parent or step-parent.
The NSPCC estimates that 1 in 20 children are victims of sexual abuse and over a third of ALL police recorded sex crimes are against children, with, once again, the vast majority committed by people well known to the children.
Some 2024 figures.
50,000 kids are the subject of child protection plans.
400,000 are identified as ‘children in need’ (needing help or protection as a result of developmental or health needs), with over 50% of these a result of ‘abuse or neglect’.
621,000 referrals to children’s social services hits hardly surprising many slip through the net).
225,000 section 47 enquiries carried out (section 47 is ‘reasonable cause that a child may be suffering).
For everyone blaming social services imagine your child had had a week or two of falling off their bike, which resulted in a hospital visit or 2. Now imagine social services turning up and taking that child away for 3 nights, until convinced you were telling the truth and there was no need to worry. How do you react?
I think I know the answer for most of us but, until we can come up with a proper plan to address this stuff it will continue happening and, until we can all somehow accept a visit from social services or an enquiry from the school regarding possible suspicions, without diving off the deep end, I fear it will never alter.