Stillsy
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If someone hits you no matter who they are hit them back, unless its a girl.
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BlueHammer85
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Stillsy said:If someone hits you no matter who they are hit them back, unless its a girl.
dont beleive in this
what if your hardest punch is not strong enough and the other person retaliates twice as much before ?
LongLang
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in the old days, when you got a dig, it was expected that you give on back. he might only be 4, but so is she, for now they are pretty equal, size & strength wise. my little girl is 2, and when she grows up, she will be hitting people back if she is hit first, and ONLY if she is hit first.
she should give the little shit a whack back. if it hurts they will soon stop & move onto a kid that doesn't hit them back. not fair on the other kids i know, but at least yours is ok.
tell the teacher and the probability is getting called a grass and smacked around a bit more, as all that happens is a telling off. But maybe that's just how i see it.
you might be able to tell, but i'm not into all this tell the teacher/boss/police wank. if i have a problem i will sort it myself.
my ol man told me you never win a fight with your fists. you should use a brick or a bottle or summat to put it beyond doubt.
lol
she should give the little shit a whack back. if it hurts they will soon stop & move onto a kid that doesn't hit them back. not fair on the other kids i know, but at least yours is ok.
tell the teacher and the probability is getting called a grass and smacked around a bit more, as all that happens is a telling off. But maybe that's just how i see it.
you might be able to tell, but i'm not into all this tell the teacher/boss/police wank. if i have a problem i will sort it myself.
my ol man told me you never win a fight with your fists. you should use a brick or a bottle or summat to put it beyond doubt.
lol
metalblue
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With the school christmas play season upon us i'd go to watch the play, find out who this little chancer is, make sure he knows it's your daughter, get his eye during his performance, point at him and slowly draw you finger across your throat whilst mouthing "outside" to him - that should put a stop to it.
On reflection your Mrs is probably right to go speak to the teacher who will keep an eye on it or speak with his parents about his behaviour with the other kids.
On reflection your Mrs is probably right to go speak to the teacher who will keep an eye on it or speak with his parents about his behaviour with the other kids.
KentBlue
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That made me laugh out loud.With the school christmas play season upon us i'd go to watch the play, find out who this little chancer is, make sure he knows it's your daughter, get his eye during his performance, point at him and slowly draw you finger across your throat whilst mouthing "outside" to him - that should put a stop to it.
Stillsy
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Markt85 said:Stillsy said:If someone hits you no matter who they are hit them back, unless its a girl.
dont beleive in this
what if your hardest punch is not strong enough and the other person retaliates twice as much before ?
Then you take the beating and move on, you will be stronger for it. Also there will always be a mate harder than he is who can help you out too if your being bullied.
markbmcfc
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The only way to get rid of a bully, is to give it them back. They will move on to some other poor soul.
n reddish blue said:my daughter (aged 4) told me tonight some boy punched her at school today,my reaction straight away was did you hit him back or tell a teacher and no was the answer,ok her mum is going to report this but i have told her to deck him if he does it again.am i right or am i right!!!
The hypocrisy on here is amazing. Tell her to kick him in the shin and then punch him in the knapper every day until he runs when he see's her.
BELFAST_BLUE_BOY
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kids at that age play fight all the time....push and pull....teachers in good schools sort it out.
this is not really bullying IMO.....but if one child in class is hitting or biting other kids it is a sign of a problem elsewhere....
this is not really bullying IMO.....but if one child in class is hitting or biting other kids it is a sign of a problem elsewhere....
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schools can drag their feet with bullying though. report it a couple of times. then tell her to hit him back or confront the boys parents yourself. if the school interfere, tell them you tried but they didn't act.
my eldest lad got bullied by an older boy because, wait for it, the boy had the same name as my lad and they both have younger brothers with the same name. it was reported to the school a few times but they did fuck all. then one day, they were on a school trip when this little twat was discussing the name thing with his mates and one pointed out that we have a daughter so the families aren't the same anymore. the fucker said "well she'll just have to die then."
my lad's mate heard it and told the teacher before getting his mam to phone us to tell us. we marched into school and i lost it a little, telling this teacher that i wanted a personal apology and accused them of routinely sweeping bullying under the carpet. to be fair, the boy had to write us a letter and his mam dragged him to our door to apologise. she was crying her eyes out and grounded the little shite. one of his mates was at it as well but didn't get named. the same week was the kids and parents trip to the christmas panto. the lad was a few rows in front of us. he saw me and went white. everytime he looked around i stared back. i don't think he enjoyed the panto very much that night. he thought i was going to confront his mam in the theatre. harsh, but so was the routine beatings handed out to my lad for months on end whenever he played out.
my eldest lad got bullied by an older boy because, wait for it, the boy had the same name as my lad and they both have younger brothers with the same name. it was reported to the school a few times but they did fuck all. then one day, they were on a school trip when this little twat was discussing the name thing with his mates and one pointed out that we have a daughter so the families aren't the same anymore. the fucker said "well she'll just have to die then."
my lad's mate heard it and told the teacher before getting his mam to phone us to tell us. we marched into school and i lost it a little, telling this teacher that i wanted a personal apology and accused them of routinely sweeping bullying under the carpet. to be fair, the boy had to write us a letter and his mam dragged him to our door to apologise. she was crying her eyes out and grounded the little shite. one of his mates was at it as well but didn't get named. the same week was the kids and parents trip to the christmas panto. the lad was a few rows in front of us. he saw me and went white. everytime he looked around i stared back. i don't think he enjoyed the panto very much that night. he thought i was going to confront his mam in the theatre. harsh, but so was the routine beatings handed out to my lad for months on end whenever he played out.