Seems like it's all happening this week..

[JoeMercer'sWay]

To be fair though fitton. if I was going out with a girl whose mates hang upside down from doorframes, I think is be having second thoughts aswell.

Pigeonho mate, send her a congratulations card and forget all about her. I have 4 kids and the mother of my daughter though she could screw me over. The best way of dealing with a break up is to accept it. Move on. In the 13,000,000,000 years this planet has been here, we're on it for around 80 (if your lucky). Life really is too short to allow someone to upset you.

More than happy for her mate, just brings back memories which were pretty much the best ever.

I know...9/11 was great wasn't it.

I don't know how to reply to that, other than I'm not surprised it came from you and that I laughed...

 

[Dirty Harry]

Did that last night but still woke up feeling depressed.

I really am down in the dumps.

Like I've said to you,it hurts like fuck bit you will get through it because you've got no choice. She's trying to let you down lightly with the 'space' comment. The long and short of it is that someone else has caught her eye/affection. Amongst all the 'gallows' humour on here there really is some good advice and reassurance from people who've been there.[/quote]


Agreed mate, and in my own experience that means ' I'll see how it goes with this new fella and if it doesn't work out I'll get back to you', you're a back-up plan.

The moment she realises YOU have made the decision to move on and have taken control of the situation is more than likely going to be the moment she starts to think 'shit, have I done the right thing', whilst you act like a little puppy and desperate as f*ck she won't be interested.

 

[Fitton]

Yep that's it lads, gunna start thinking of number one now.

Realised that me moping around the house pining for her is only going to make me look more unatractive to her so why would she want me back.

Gunna do my own thing for a while and let her do her own thing to, if she decides that she's had her space and wants to give it another go then we'll have a chat and see how things go.

Life really is too short to sit around just getting upset, if it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't meant to be, nothing I can do right now will change how she's feeling and the things I want to do will just push her further away.

Hopefully we can work things out but that's to be seen.

Thanks for all the advice just gunna try and keep my head up now and keep busy.

"If you love something set it free, if it comes back then it's yours, if it doesn't then it wasn't meant to be"

 

[BlueHammer85]

Yep that's it lads, gunna start thinking of number one now.

Realised that me moping around the house pining for her is only going to make me look more unatractive to her so why would she want me back.

Gunna do my own thing for a while and let her do her own thing to, if she decides that she's had her space and wants to give it another go then we'll have a chat and see how things go.

Life really is too short to sit around just getting upset, if it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't meant to be, nothing I can do right now will change how she's feeling and the things I want to do will just push her further away.

Hopefully we can work things out but that's to be seen.

Thanks for all the advice just gunna try and keep my head up now and keep busy.

"If you love something set it free, if it comes back then it's yours, if it doesn't then it wasn't meant to be"

Dont give up on her

if she wants space tell her to watch fucking star trek

drop your mates, fuck the family

every male needs its prey and she is the one.

send her a letter and express your feelings


[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XMiy_UsrPDs[/youtube]

 

[WJP]

I know it's cold as fook, but I can tell you from experience that trying to re-light the fire is pointless and will only end up in more pain. Cut your losses as quickly as possible and move on.

I split up with a girl after living with her for 4 years and it got pretty messy in the end with us staying friends and me constantly trying to get back with her, turning up at her new flat drunk all the time and obsessed about her meeting someone else. It will totally destroy you if you dwell on it too long.

This is what my pal did. He rang me up one day and said that his missus wanted to break up and could I help him move out ASAP. She'd told him the day before and he went on the net, found a shared house, met all the people who lived there and paid a deposit. I picked him up the next day and filled the car with all his stuff, moved him into a big gaff in Didsbury, full of fit birds and a few lads. He spent the next 2 years having a great laugh, shagging alsorts and last month he married one of the girls who lived upstairs.

He hasn't spoken to his ex since the day I picked him up. And if I was to compare his experience to mine, he was bang on the money.

 

[Fitton]

I know it's cold as fook, but I can tell you from experience that trying to re-light the fire is pointless and will only end up in more pain. Cut your losses as quickly as possible and move on.

I split up with a girl after living with her for 4 years and it got pretty messy in the end with us staying friends and me constantly trying to get back with her, turning up at her new flat drunk all the time and obsessed about her meeting someone else. It will totally destroy you if you dwell on it too long.

This is what my pal did. He rang me up one day and said that his missus wanted to break up and could I help him move out ASAP. She'd told him the day before and he went on the net, found a shared house, met all the people who lived there and paid a deposit. I picked him up the next day and filled the car with all his stuff, moved him into a big gaff in Didsbury, full of fit birds and a few lads. He spent the next 2 years having a great laugh, shagging alsorts and last month he married one of the girls who lived upstairs.

He hasn't spoken to his ex since the day I picked him up. And if I was to compare his experience to mine, he was bang on the money.

This is what i'm tryna do just so hard at the minute.

How did you cope with having an empty house and bed after 4 years, thats whats tearing me up!

 

[MonkeyButler]

I know it's cold as fook, but I can tell you from experience that trying to re-light the fire is pointless and will only end up in more pain. Cut your losses as quickly as possible and move on.

I split up with a girl after living with her for 4 years and it got pretty messy in the end with us staying friends and me constantly trying to get back with her, turning up at her new flat drunk all the time and obsessed about her meeting someone else. It will totally destroy you if you dwell on it too long.

This is what my pal did. He rang me up one day and said that his missus wanted to break up and could I help him move out ASAP. She'd told him the day before and he went on the net, found a shared house, met all the people who lived there and paid a deposit. I picked him up the next day and filled the car with all his stuff, moved him into a big gaff in Didsbury, full of fit birds and a few lads. He spent the next 2 years having a great laugh, shagging alsorts and last month he married one of the girls who lived upstairs.

He hasn't spoken to his ex since the day I picked him up. And if I was to compare his experience to mine, he was bang on the money.

This is the best advice I've seen on here. I have never even laid eyes on the majority of my exes and to be honest, I wouldn't want to.

That's the best way to make a clean break, forget about them and get on with it.

 

[WJP]

I know it's cold as fook, but I can tell you from experience that trying to re-light the fire is pointless and will only end up in more pain. Cut your losses as quickly as possible and move on.

I split up with a girl after living with her for 4 years and it got pretty messy in the end with us staying friends and me constantly trying to get back with her, turning up at her new flat drunk all the time and obsessed about her meeting someone else. It will totally destroy you if you dwell on it too long.

This is what my pal did. He rang me up one day and said that his missus wanted to break up and could I help him move out ASAP. She'd told him the day before and he went on the net, found a shared house, met all the people who lived there and paid a deposit. I picked him up the next day and filled the car with all his stuff, moved him into a big gaff in Didsbury, full of fit birds and a few lads. He spent the next 2 years having a great laugh, shagging alsorts and last month he married one of the girls who lived upstairs.

He hasn't spoken to his ex since the day I picked him up. And if I was to compare his experience to mine, he was bang on the money.

This is what i'm tryna do just so hard at the minute.

How did you cope with having an empty house and bed after 4 years, thats whats tearing me up!

Well, I couldn't afford the rent in our flat after she moved out, so I had to move back in with Mum!!! Gutted, but after a while I turned stuff around by seeing more of my friends, going out more, but I was still trying desparately trying to get back with her and it was borderline stalking with texts and emails, so one day I decided to delete her from my phone and then imagined she'd moved away to a different country and not Chorlton. She gradually moved to the back of my mind, but not completely.

Then at a new years party I met this girl, only a one night stand, but it broke the spell and I instantly realised I could move on and there was plenty of girls out there, many who are better than my ex. I moved into a shared house in West Didsbury and made so many new pals, I was out all the time and always had something planned most evenings, met a girl who was a friend of a housemate, and we've been together 5 years. Getting married in December.

If I was to put myself in that dark place again, where I was when I was stuck on my own in a flat, pining for her and feeling sorry for myself, I probably wouldn't believe what has occured since, and I can count myself lucky that I ended up with a special woman who is 8 years younger than my ex and has a better personality, career etc...

Maybe it was meant to be?

You're in a bad spot at the moment, and it might take a while to re-adjust, but the sooner you make this adjustment in your mind, the sooner you will get out of this situation.

 

[MonkeyButler]

I know it's cold as fook, but I can tell you from experience that trying to re-light the fire is pointless and will only end up in more pain. Cut your losses as quickly as possible and move on.

I split up with a girl after living with her for 4 years and it got pretty messy in the end with us staying friends and me constantly trying to get back with her, turning up at her new flat drunk all the time and obsessed about her meeting someone else. It will totally destroy you if you dwell on it too long.

This is what my pal did. He rang me up one day and said that his missus wanted to break up and could I help him move out ASAP. She'd told him the day before and he went on the net, found a shared house, met all the people who lived there and paid a deposit. I picked him up the next day and filled the car with all his stuff, moved him into a big gaff in Didsbury, full of fit birds and a few lads. He spent the next 2 years having a great laugh, shagging alsorts and last month he married one of the girls who lived upstairs.

He hasn't spoken to his ex since the day I picked him up. And if I was to compare his experience to mine, he was bang on the money.

This is what i'm tryna do just so hard at the minute.

How did you cope with having an empty house and bed after 4 years, thats whats tearing me up!

Well, I couldn't afford the rent in our flat after she moved out, so I had to move back in with Mum!!! Gutted, but after a while I turned stuff around by seeing more of my friends, going out more, but I was still trying desparately trying to get back with her and it was borderline stalking with texts and emails, so one day I decided to delete her from my phone and then imagined she'd moved away to a different country and not Chorlton. She gradually moved to the back of my mind, but not completely.

Then at a new years party I met this girl, only a one night stand, but it broke the spell and I instantly realised I could move on and there was plenty of girls out there, many who are better than my ex. I moved into a shared house in West Didsbury and made so many new pals, I was out all the time and always had something planned most evenings, met a girl who was a friend of a housemate, and we've been together 5 years. Getting married in December.

If I was to put myself in that dark place again, where I was when I was stuck on my own in a flat, pining for her and feeling sorry for myself, I probably wouldn't believe what has occured since, and I can count myself lucky that I ended up with a special woman who is 8 years younger than my ex and has a better personality, career etc...

Maybe it was meant to be?

You're in a bad spot at the moment, and it might take a while to re-adjust, but the sooner you make this adjustment in your mind, the sooner you will get out of this situation.

Tits? Arse?

 

[gaudinho's stolen car]

Yep that's it lads, gunna start thinking of number one now.

Realised that me moping around the house pining for her is only going to make me look more unatractive to her so why would she want me back.

Gunna do my own thing for a while and let her do her own thing to, if she decides that she's had her space and wants to give it another go then we'll have a chat and see how things go.

Life really is too short to sit around just getting upset, if it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't meant to be, nothing I can do right now will change how she's feeling and the things I want to do will just push her further away.

Hopefully we can work things out but that's to be seen.

Thanks for all the advice just gunna try and keep my head up now and keep busy.

"If you love something set it free, if it comes back then it's yours, if it doesn't then it wasn't meant to be"

Dont give up on her

if she wants space tell her to watch fucking star trek

drop your mates, fuck the family

every male needs its prey and she is the one.

send her a letter and express your feelings


[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XMiy_UsrPDs[/youtube]

Getting a tattoo of her name on his chest would certainly show her how much he cares about her. That's solid gold advice right there.