Seems like it's all happening this week..

[Bluebird1]

At this rate we will need a Dear Deidre section to give advice to all bluemoons broken hearted.

Could do a Dear Bluebird section if you like. Trouble is, they probably wouldn't want my advice .....

Would it be..."drink pints you wuss, and lot's of them" by any chance?

Along those lines ..... grow a pair etc etc

 

[Fitton]

It's all too much I've just got so much going through my head and I want to be with her so bad.

Simply cant comprehend not being together

 

[Bilboblue]

It's all too much I've just got so much going through my head and I want to be with her so bad.

Simply cant comprehend not being together

being on here isn't gonna do you any favours if you don't listen to the advoce you have been given fella.

Now shut off your computer and go and have a wank, then get down the boozer with some mates for a laugh.

 

[Fitton]

Did that last night but still woke up feeling depressed.

I really am down in the dumps.

 

[Bigga]

Well that's it, don't think we'll get back together if I'm honest as much as it kills me to type.

She's just left now, probably for the last time and it's destroyed me watching her leave.

She just said she needs space and to be by herself but after a few weeks or whatever she might want to get back together, but I really can't see it.

End of an era my fellow blue mooners, this double beds gunna feel a lot bigger now :(

Did that last night but still woke up feeling depressed.

I really am down in the dumps.

Oh, for fu...

Look, yeah, the problem with relationships is that very rarely, in fact EXTREMELY rarely are both partners within it, 50/ 50. More likely one partner gives up 'power' in order to balance out the happiness for the other person. More often than not, the other person leeches power/ emotions/ finance/ whatever from the giving partner in an 'agreement', for themselves, to keep the relationship treading water. Note; treading water, not moving ahead.

The 'leecher' will only do this for so long before moving on, citing whatever they please as the reason. That could be loathing of either the other partner or themselves, but they have to move on. It's just the nature of things.

Lesson learned; give only 100% of yourself when you are sure the other person is giving the same back. Otherwise, you will be living your life in that revolving door until you step out of it.

Okay, now you've read this, analyse your former relationship properly and stop being so hard on yourself..



Oh, and by the way, her wanting 'time' is to reaffirm to herself she's doing the right thing plus giving you time to accept it's over.

 

[Gaylord du Bois]

Did that last night but still woke up feeling depressed.

I really am down in the dumps.

Like I've said to you,it hurts like fuck bit you will get through it because you've got no choice. She's trying to let you down lightly with the 'space' comment. The long and short of it is that someone else has caught her eye/affection. Amongst all the 'gallows' humour on here there really is some good advice and reassurance from people who've been there.

 

[tueartsboots]

If it's meant to be she'll come back, may take time (love of my life took 8 years, we've been together just over 3 now)

 

[simonk]

you could post saucy photos of her on internet forums?

 

[Bluemoon115]

you could post saucy photos of her on internet forums?

This is definitely very therapeutic.

 

[the mystery illness]

you could post saucy photos of her on internet forums?

This is definitely very therapeutic.

and will help the healing process , plus , if she finds out , she will be back with you in an instant. it's what women want.


burger shots if poss mate.