Short of an unlikely champion league title or premier league title this season to beat Spurs in the FA cup final would be awesome. That experience of losing the 81 replay broke my 9 year old heart, winning in 2011 (30 bloody years later!!) helped enormously to address that (as did that 4-3 comeback in 2004), winning the league in 2011 helped me to forget it but to beat them in a repeat final - that and only that will make up for it. Yes, I know I am getting ahead of myself, yes I know I need to get over myself, but I don't care, I love my club and I feel the hurt and the joy!