Mostly true but some people just have the gift of self delusion they see a model in the mirror and it creeps into their psyche so much it manifests as an unshakeable confidence which is attractive to some. We've all seen couples together and thought to ourselves... how? They're not good looking, they're overweight, not rich, not too bright, average at best in most areas yet they pull off these miracles, some are just good liars if you ask me which is why they bounce from one relationship to the next so often. I'm not bitter, more amazed when I see it. :)