Split with girlfriend... help.

mayo31 said:
Sounds to me like she already moved on and has her sights set on someone else, sorry but I see what she is really saying is that she wants to try something different and really you doing what you did has given her the out.

She said you have both not been happy for a while, is that true or just true from her point of view?

I would take it as what it is, she's off, don't dwell too much, get out there and do the same.

If in a few months she contacts you, see how you feel but remember by then she would have tried some others out, can you accept that, you yourself might also have had extras. So it could be a win win.
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We had been arguing a lot recently and stuff, but we also had really good moments right up until the end. She was very demanding and wouldn't let me go out alot as id spend all my money on her, im a student, so part time wages could only really afford to keep her if i didn't go out whilst she would go out at least once a week. And shes always been moody and stubborn but i really invested alot into this and its shit to give up hope. I told her to not give me false hope and to just tell me straight if there is no going back, she said that she doesn't know how she will feel so she cant say.
 
Big-P said:
mayo31 said:
Sounds to me like she already moved on and has her sights set on someone else, sorry but I see what she is really saying is that she wants to try something different and really you doing what you did has given her the out.

She said you have both not been happy for a while, is that true or just true from her point of view?

I would take it as what it is, she's off, don't dwell too much, get out there and do the same.

If in a few months she contacts you, see how you feel but remember by then she would have tried some others out, can you accept that, you yourself might also have had extras. So it could be a win win.
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We had been arguing a lot recently and stuff, but we also had really good moments right up until the end. She was very demanding and wouldn't let me go out alot as id spend all my money on her, im a student, so part time wages could only really afford to keep her if i didn't go out whilst she would go out at least once a week. And shes always been moody and stubborn but i really invested alot into this and its shit to give up hope. I told her to not give me false hope and to just tell me straight if there is no going back, she said that she doesn't know how she will feel so she cant say.
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Not very helpful maybe but I'd say you're well rid.
 
If I was in love with someone there is no way I wouldn't want to see them. She doesn't love you she's prob already got her eye on someone else do not waste one more minute of your time. As everyone else says go out get laid move on :)



Feel for you though big hugs xx
 
Big-P said:
mayo31 said:
Sounds to me like she already moved on and has her sights set on someone else, sorry but I see what she is really saying is that she wants to try something different and really you doing what you did has given her the out.

She said you have both not been happy for a while, is that true or just true from her point of view?

I would take it as what it is, she's off, don't dwell too much, get out there and do the same.

If in a few months she contacts you, see how you feel but remember by then she would have tried some others out, can you accept that, you yourself might also have had extras. So it could be a win win.
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We had been arguing a lot recently and stuff, but we also had really good moments right up until the end. She was very demanding and wouldn't let me go out alot as id spend all my money on her, im a student, so part time wages could only really afford to keep her if i didn't go out whilst she would go out at least once a week. And shes always been moody and stubborn but i really invested alot into this and its shit to give up hope. I told her to not give me false hope and to just tell me straight if there is no going back, she said that she doesn't know how she will feel so she cant say.
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End of thread. Buy a Sunday ticket for Creamfields and let's get ketty.
 
Big-P said:
mayo31 said:
Sounds to me like she already moved on and has her sights set on someone else, sorry but I see what she is really saying is that she wants to try something different and really you doing what you did has given her the out.

She said you have both not been happy for a while, is that true or just true from her point of view?

I would take it as what it is, she's off, don't dwell too much, get out there and do the same.

If in a few months she contacts you, see how you feel but remember by then she would have tried some others out, can you accept that, you yourself might also have had extras. So it could be a win win.
Click to expand...

We had been arguing a lot recently and stuff, but we also had really good moments right up until the end. She was very demanding and wouldn't let me go out alot as id spend all my money on her, im a student, so part time wages could only really afford to keep her if i didn't go out whilst she would go out at least once a week. And shes always been moody and stubborn but i really invested alot into this and its shit to give up hope. I told her to not give me false hope and to just tell me straight if there is no going back, she said that she doesn't know how she will feel so she cant say.
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Reading this I'd say:
*Paragraph breaks.

*You're well shot of the ****

Now give yourself a slap, dress up, go out, get drunk and get laid and for fucks sake don't start telling any young one you're chatting up about your ex.
 
So she let you spend your money to take her out but then used her own money to go out on her own?

That says a lot mate.

Hope - forget that, take control and move on. You will feel better for it.
 
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