Dubai Blue said:
In my experience of living abroad over the last nine years, about 90% of the expats I know who've had kids have gone back home to have them. It's not so much the nationality issue and more to do with what they're comfortable with. The birth of your child is the most important thing you'll ever do and for that reason you do it where you feel most at ease. In England, she only has her husband with her. In Argentina, she has her whole extended family there to help out and support her. Presumably she will remain there with the baby for a few months now, with Carlos returning here ASAP (Mancini has only ever mentioned him missing tonight's game). What they've done is no different to what the vast majority of expats do.
And if he was truly going to fulfill his contract like you suggested he should, we'd be without him for the rest of the season. So try to have a bit more compassion.
I might be missing something here, but I don't understand the last paragraph. This thread is about him missing the Liverpool game, so my posts are in response to that eventuality. You see, in life, you can't have it both ways. Carlos is on a deal which is probably 20 times what he could earn in Argentina and on that basis, his responsibilities to fulfil that contract are significant - if he's not happy with that, he should have stayed at Boca Juniors earning £8k a week.
If he misses a couple of games, no problem, but Liverpool is looking unlikely and at the moment and there is no forecast return date. Added to that is the fact that he won't have trained for a while and who know's how many games he'll miss?
His situation is understandable from a family viewpoint, but from a contractual viewpoint it seems that the club are getting the shitty end of the stick - afterall, City are a footbll club, not a Local Authority, where you get a weeks compassionate leave if the hamster dies - is that compassionate enough for you or would you like me to post a video of me in floods of tears as well?.