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OK magazine and The One Show have been notified. Also questions will be asked in the House and the SNP are due to announce Alex the slippery Salmon has resigned.McNair9 said:A letter to her parents? lol come on man
MCFC BOB said:Okay, I think it's time to let this thread go. People are falling out and I don't want that.
I've written her a letter basically explaining that I still love her, while explaining that if we can't get back together as a couple then I don't think I could take the emotional rollercoaster of us being friends.
I've given her my phone number if she wants to talk to me again, and I've reminded her that if she looks in the right places then she'll find me on Facebook and Twitter.
I've written a note to her parents thanking them for having me so often and I'm going to speak to her friends and say it was nice knowing them - albeit briefly.
This is so sad and my heart is breaking, but I guess this just has to be done if I'm ever going to be happy again.
Bob, its so obvious from this post alone you are hurting.
You've had some really good advice in this thread and you're choosing to ignore everyone, so why make the thread in the first place? I know that sounds harsh, but l know theres a lot of us on here that has been in the place you are right now, thats why they can give good advice. We know that in time you will look back and laugh at how you felt. Theres nothing wrong with how you're feeling, thats how you are, you're only young and will learn from this experience.
You've got to let go, no matter how hard it is. Keeping in touch will just hurt you in the end, not her. You will never move on if not. Writing these letters, telling her she'll find you on facebook and twitter if she needs you isn't going to help is it? Why? Because you'll be constantly on facebook and twitter hoping she will be there too. Who'll be the one who will still be hurting when you don't see what you want to see? You.
You're making yourself into your own worst enemy, but you won't listen, but you'll one day learn from it.
MCFC BOB
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I've basically said I'm not going to go looking for her once she's out of my life. I'm starting a new Facebook soon and I'm going to cut her out.
But if she wants to start talking again, the opportunity is there for her if she goes to the right people. I doubt that will happen but you never know.
I have to take in everyone's advice and weigh it up against the best thing I've ever known. I can't make a decision instantly.
But I think one way or another, she's going to be out of my life sooner rather than later. The more I see her, the worse I know I'm going to feel.
Tomorrow morning, I'm getting a new hotmail address, a new MSN, a new Facebook, and a new YouTube account. My ex-girlfriend won't be on any of these, and the only way she'll be able to contact me is through my friends that she knows. I doubt that's going to happen now.
Thank you for your advice, everyone. I have taken it on board, I have. Just because she's not completely out of my life yet, it doesn't mean I've ignored the advice you've given me.
It's time for a fresh start.
But if she wants to start talking again, the opportunity is there for her if she goes to the right people. I doubt that will happen but you never know.
I have to take in everyone's advice and weigh it up against the best thing I've ever known. I can't make a decision instantly.
But I think one way or another, she's going to be out of my life sooner rather than later. The more I see her, the worse I know I'm going to feel.
Tomorrow morning, I'm getting a new hotmail address, a new MSN, a new Facebook, and a new YouTube account. My ex-girlfriend won't be on any of these, and the only way she'll be able to contact me is through my friends that she knows. I doubt that's going to happen now.
Thank you for your advice, everyone. I have taken it on board, I have. Just because she's not completely out of my life yet, it doesn't mean I've ignored the advice you've given me.
It's time for a fresh start.
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MCFC BOB said:I've basically said I'm not going to go looking for her once she's out of my life. I'm starting a new Facebook soon and I'm going to cut her out.
But if she wants to start talking again, the opportunity is there for her if she goes to the right people. I doubt that will happen but you never know.
I have to take in everyone's advice and weigh it up against the best thing I've ever known. I can't make a decision instantly.
But I think one way or another, she's going to be out of my life sooner rather than later. The more I see her, the worse I know I'm going to feel.
Tomorrow morning, I'm getting a new hotmail address, a new MSN, a new Facebook, and a new YouTube account. My ex-girlfriend won't be on any of these, and the only way she'll be able to contact me is through my friends that she knows. I doubt that's going to happen now.
Thank you for your advice, everyone. I have taken it on board, I have. Just because she's not completely out of my life yet, it doesn't mean I've ignored the advice you've given me.
It's time for a fresh start.
Why dont you just block her, no point losing pics you have of other people.
It shows manners if nothing else.McNair9 said:A letter to her parents? lol come on man
MCFC BOB
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I have really old statuses about her when we were together. I never want to see them again.Ticket For Schalke said:MCFC BOB said:I've basically said I'm not going to go looking for her once she's out of my life. I'm starting a new Facebook soon and I'm going to cut her out.
But if she wants to start talking again, the opportunity is there for her if she goes to the right people. I doubt that will happen but you never know.
I have to take in everyone's advice and weigh it up against the best thing I've ever known. I can't make a decision instantly.
But I think one way or another, she's going to be out of my life sooner rather than later. The more I see her, the worse I know I'm going to feel.
Tomorrow morning, I'm getting a new hotmail address, a new MSN, a new Facebook, and a new YouTube account. My ex-girlfriend won't be on any of these, and the only way she'll be able to contact me is through my friends that she knows. I doubt that's going to happen now.
Thank you for your advice, everyone. I have taken it on board, I have. Just because she's not completely out of my life yet, it doesn't mean I've ignored the advice you've given me.
It's time for a fresh start.
Why dont you just block her, no point losing pics you have of other people.
i suppose, but still, it's seems a tad too much imomackenzie said:It shows manners if nothing else.McNair9 said:A letter to her parents? lol come on man
Bob you did the right thing, sending her and her parents a letter will show them what a nice chap you are. Maybe make her a mix tape aswell of really emotional songs, she will then proceed to listen to the music and read the letter and want you back. Plus get her chocolates and fatty things to eat so she becomes a fat frump and therefore no other lad would want to bum her.
Maybe go to her house with a guitar and serenade her until she either gets a restraining order or takes you back.
Maybe go to her house with a guitar and serenade her until she either gets a restraining order or takes you back.
MCFC BOB
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They've trusted me in their home with their own daughter for more than two years. I just think the least I could do is say thank you for everything and goodbye.McNair9 said:i suppose, but still, it's seems a tad too much imomackenzie said:It shows manners if nothing else.McNair9 said:A letter to her parents? lol come on man