gordondaviesmoustache
Well-Known Member
I talk in here like I talk in real life. I’m highly articulate but I routinely use coarse, industrial language, that am not afraid to use in ‘refined’ company. It’s not an act, and nor is it calculated - it’s how I express myself and have done for many years, and to great effect I’d say.The reason I don't like Angela is simply that she's not genuine. Her use of abusive playground language is carefully calculated. It jars with me and what I was taught but tbf so does much of the same stuff on here, even when deployed by silver-tongued pros like yourself ;-)
I’m generally viewed an an exceptional communicator with highly developed people skills by those that know me in the real world, as well as being true to myself, and a genuine person by those I interact with. Nothing fake or calculated about me.
It all helps, of course if, like Rayner, you have huge reserves of self-confidence, in terms of being true to yourself.
Which is why I guess I found your reasoning in relation to Rayner to be poor, because I don’t personally see anything calculated. She expresses herself in a way that I view as natural to her, which for reasons of the foregoing I view as genuine.
I think your judgement of her is wholly wrong.