Blue Maverick said:
EalingBlue2 said:
The one thing, the most important thing is what about the kids, how do you propose they are fed and looked after and helped to become valuable members of society? I understand the feelings towards the parents but protecting kids always comes before punishing the parents in my books and I would rather some of my hard earned money goes to an undeserving parent than a deserving kid misses out on it.
I also love the assumption that there isn't waste equal to or more than the public sector in the private sector. Having worked for and with multi national companies for 20 years I can tell you there is every bit the waste in banks, restaurants, airlines, professional services etc that there is in schools, hospitals, police stations - often a lot more.
Totally agree you should not punish the kids and at no point have I said we should be taking money off people, but you could say in one years time you will not get any benefits for a new born third child. As for the IQ question I'm saying do you think its intelligent to keep having kids if you cannot support them? I just don't think you are intelligent if you are on your arse or close to it and then think hey I know let's have another mouth to feed, clothe and bring up, do you think that is fair on the child?
I think she'd loads of people rich and poor probably shouldn't have kids tbh. I hate seeing kids of rich career parents who are lucky to get an hour or two with them a week and are treated as a fashion accessory, I hate seeing kids who are emotionally neglected or abused, malnourished or anything. So yes should parents who can't look after kids properly have kids then in an ideal world perhaps they shouldnt. But once they do it is our duty as a civilised society to look after them ! So I think we need carrots not sticks. I also accept that no man can be a judge as to the acceptability of who can breed.
It may not be fair on the child, you are not wrong about that, but I wouldn't tackle that unfairness by being even more unfair!