Democracy and representation in that region has never existed, mostly because of religious bigotry, racism and discrimination. Iran turned a corner over a decade ago but instead of moderately aligning to the west it has turned towards a pariah state whose politics is fuelled by hatred. It is also supported by the axis of Chia and Russia who again seek to counter the west. Let's face it, any country that shoots political dissidents isn't exactly going to be agreeable or a nice place.
Take Yemen for example, less than 0.05% of the Yemeni population is non-Muslim and an even smaller proportion are Jews, you will see more people in your local Aldi than Jews in the whole country of Yemen. These are Muslim states under Muslim rule, minorities who aren't Muslim are persecuted and have lesser rights, freedom of religion is sometimes even proscribed as illegal. This is the kind of state that Palestinians or at least certainly Hamas wishes for, if they didn't and this was purely about land then why would they have a problem being absorbed into Israel?
Funnily enough nearly every Muslim state and many Muslims regard that Israel should not exist. This sentiment only fades as you travel into the west or with westernised Arab nations where westernised Muslims have a different view of the world. The west is therefore the only counterbalance between the persecution of the Jews in the Middle East. Without western support Israel would not exist, Jewish people would in the end be persecuted and forced to live in the west.
Ask yourself why are these countries fighting Israel? How does war help the Palestinians? What have the Houthis, Hezbollah or even Hamas done to actually help the Palestinians? Why won't the Arab nations take Palestinians refugees or help with aid? I think the UK and US has sent more aid to the Palestinians than any other Arab nation.
This has nothing to do with the Israeli state, for many people such as yourself Rascal and others on the left you won't stand up for the Israeli state because to you Israel represents American influence and capitalism. You are therefore programmed to take action for the Palestinian cause. However you must realise that it's different for Muslims and especially Muslims in the region. For them it's all about the Jews and the religious significance of the land that Israel stands on, it always has been.