Lads lads , I am not a minger. Ask anybody. The fact that I had no problem ever getting on with women was the point of the exercise.
If I was a minger then obviously my theory would be less striking.
The fact that someone who never had problems would be rejected in quick succession showed that it was peer pressure. Not wanting to take the last persons reject.
If the first woman had said yes then it would have died in it's arse as an experiment. Picking the one I dud was deliberate. She was a whacky out there type and I in top hat tails and a natty cane were not her thing.
Trouble nipping women? Please. :)
I've never really been knocked back more than once in a night, never been so desperate enough to pull really tbh.
I met my ex wife in butterflies nightclub Oldham on Oct 6th 89. I caught her out of the corner of eye, sat there with her friend. She was 19, I was 25. She looked stunningly beautiful, like a young Joanna Lumley.
Now it's fair to say I have the gift of the gab with the ladies, never had many problems tbh. I don't know why but(probably nerves) I approached her like a right dick. A bit like Paul Calf(Steve coogan)
Strolled up to her, pint in one hand, double Jack Daniels in the other, tab in my gob, cheap suit on, the quality of the average Ja-hovis witness at ones door. In other words, I looked a right ****.
"Alright love, d'ya come here often?" Type of approach. Well she looked at her mate in a state of (oh my god, why do I get 'em) shock horror. Her mate started laughing as I winked at her.
I proceeded to give my ex wife my worst in a humourous kind of way, and realised wtf I was doing in acting like some prick, even though it was just a facade to my real rational decent self.
After about 20 minutes she let me buy her a drink and I turned to her saying something like " look hun, I'm not a dick really, I'm a nice guy really, can I have your number and I'll take you out somewhere nice for a meal.
She gave me her number. We dated 4 years before marriage, had two beautiful daughters together, and spent 15 happy years together.
I can still be a dick though ; )