technically only been married 9 months but been with and living with the wife for 8 years.
The age old jokes of 'do what you're told' etc etc needs to be completely put to bed straight away if you want a relationship to last, IMO.
Nobody should be 'wearing the trousers' (giggity), it has to be equal, that means equal repsect for each other, compromising what you want to do on days off etc. If there is a dominant partner i think it wont last.
Men who let there other halves walk all over them need to grow a pair and women who need to be the dominant partner probably aren't worth bothering with.
PS sorry for the serious answer, i know its not Bluemoon etiquette!