Will Smith slaps Chris Rock at the Oscars

Maybe true. Well he could have just called him out instead and said "I know your job is to make jokes about us tonight but joking about my wife's illness is not OK and you've crossed a line" and then got on with his acceptance speech. That would have been far more powerful and put all the spotlight on Chris Rock rather than himself.
That would have been the intelligent thing to do but I think he just saw the red mist - I've been prone to that myself in the past and that urge to release one's anger can be overwhelming. I'm not familiar with the Smiths' issues but am assuming her condition was well-known. If so then it's very poor form from Chris Rock but perhaps he just forgot.
 
It looks staged because Will's angry husband routine is fake.

He seemed to find the joke funny until he saw his wife's face and remembered he is completely and utterly under the thumb.

"Keep my wife's fucking name out of your mouth!" That was embarrassing as fuck.
He probably meant to say “keep your fucking cock out of my wife’s mouth” but not being that great an actor got it wrong.
 
For those arguing that Will Smith defended his Wife. How many more people are now going to have seen the original joke because of Will's actions? How many more people are going to learn about their relationship issues and her extra marital affairs because of Will's actions?

He's just opened the entire family to 100 times more ridicule and embarrassment. So yeah short term he might have thought he was doing the right thing, but surely now everyone can see he's just completely fucked up.

long term... other comedians might step back from joking about actors wives health issues.
 
That would have been the intelligent thing to do but I think he just saw the red mist - I've been prone to that myself in the past and that urge to release one's anger can be overwhelming. I'm not familiar with the Smiths' issues but am assuming her condition was well-known. If so then it's very poor form from Chris Rock but perhaps he just forgot.

The red mist is like somebody flicking a switch in your head, it's an odd one. Usually as we mature we learn to control it better but once switched on nothing else matters, it's like tunnel vision. A few years ago I had a bleed on the brain and for the first few months that switch was flicked at the slightest thing, it was actually quite scary. Once it was on I could easily have killed in that moment. Thankfully it's receded now.
 
For those arguing that Will Smith defended his Wife. How many more people are now going to have seen the original joke because of Will's actions? How many more people are going to learn about their relationship issues and her extra marital affairs because of Will's actions?

He's just opened the entire family to 100 times more ridicule and embarrassment. So yeah short term he might have thought he was doing the right thing, but surely now everyone can see he's just completely fucked up.
I watched the interview with his wife and him from last year, if you watch her reaction vs his then it's no wonder he's messed up.

 
The red mist is like somebody flicking a switch in your head, it's an odd one. Usually as we mature we learn to control it better but once switched on nothing else matters, it's like tunnel vision. A few years ago I had a bleed on the brain and for the first few months that switch was flicked at the slightest thing, it was actually quite scary. Once it was on I could easily have killed in that moment. Thankfully it's receded now.
I understand this feeling but this situation doesn't seem to be that. Hes laughing and then gets up, slowly walks over and then pulls a punch so it isn't too hard and then goes and sits back down. If he had fully decended he'd have run over and people would need to pull him off Rock.

To me it's just male bravado. Another man has insulted his wife and in the moment with the world watching hes thought he needs to show a bit of force and do his manly duty without going overboard. If it was a woman who said it he'd just have looked annoyed and then said something in his speech about it which is what he should have done anyway.
 
I understand this feeling but this situation doesn't seem to be that. Hes laughing and then gets up, slowly walks over and then pulls a punch so it isn't too hard and then goes and sits back down. If he had fully decended he'd have run over and people would need to pull him off Rock.

To me it's just male bravado. Another man has insulted his wife and in the moment with the world watching hes thought he needs to show a bit of force and do his manly duty without going overboard. If it was a woman who said it he'd just have looked annoyed and then said something in his speech about it which is what he should have done anyway.

I can't know what happened in his head obviously, a combination of all those things probably.

The trigger I'm talking about I do have experience of.At times it was instantaneous, others not, but the trigger feeling was the same. It just went BANG in my head, like I could hear it. Once it went off there was no turning back. Once the focus of that trigger was identified, I might look calm, take a deep breath, walk up to them and bang it was off.
 
I don't get why so many on here are giving Chris Rock a pass on this. He's a vile, spineless little dwarf of a man who uses his position now to get his own back on the big kids who bullied him at school. Talentless arsehole who actually thinks he's funny.
To be clear I'm not on here to give him a pass. If it comes to light that Chris Rock was aware of the alopecea and still went ahead with the joke then he deserves a censuring.

What cannot be excused is a violent reaction to a verbal provocation.

We can't as a society just decide that it's okay to hit out when people say things we don't like, whether the subject matter is someone's wife is not relevant.

Unfortunately this seems to be the direction of travel lately. It seems that we've become so intolerant at the possibility of being offended that some think the fair and just reaction is to lash out.

Doesn't help that we've all been covered up for the best part of two years and that most of our altercations have probably come in online form and so there's perhaps an unfamiliarity to experiencing these kind of incidents back in the open world that some people don't know how to respond to them.
 

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