We can't keep pinning everything on the referees when we've put ourselves in these situations. Newcastle, fair enough, there's a debate there. But against Spurs, we were 2-0 up and completely lost control of the game. Whether the Guehi incident was a foul or not, we sat off, stopped playing, and allowed Spurs to dominate.
It's been the same story in other games too. We created enough chances against Brighton, Forest, Chelsea, Everton and Spurs, but didn't take them. If we'd been clinical in front of goal, the refereeing decisions wouldn't even be part of the conversation.
The refs didn't make Guehi give the ball away against Everton, and they didn't cause the defence to switch off for the goals against Chelsea and Spurs. At some point, the players have to take responsibility for the points we've thrown away ourselves.