Well I’m sure you’re an excellent father, it sounds like it.
The thing to realise here though is that they were in a large group with multiple kids, having them all lying around sleeping, failing to sleep or refusing to sleep wouldn’t have been realistic for a group that size at dinner. Plus we know that the booking opportunities were slim there and they had to book that table all week, the options of a larger table weren’t possible.
This all sounds very unimportant when you factor in a child got abducted as a result of this but the thought of abduction wouldn’t have factored into their thinking as it hadn’t happened like that, to a British family, in a holiday resort, ever before.
In hindsight they should have used the crèche but the resort was so much of a family one, where practically zero crime had been reported, they felt safe enough to leave them in the apartment, whilst they ate next door.
If they did think sod the kids, they wouldn’t have routinely checked on them.
Was it laxed parenting? Probably a little but having stayed in a similar resort to that, you never come across anyone other than people who work there or other families, the atmosphere in the place would have made it seem like it was the safest place in the world and it was safe to leave them 77m away.
Of course now no one would do such as a thing as it’s happened to this poor child, we now know that even the most family oriented resorts are subject to abduction gangs.