whatever 'state' you are in or not in is no reason for anyone to mock anyone trying to improve themselves, everyone is at different stages of whatever they are trying to do and have their own reasons for getting to where they are, the problem with weight gain is that it creeps up on you an extra portion here and there, going up one size and not thinking about it, life, kids etc getting in the way of not taking care of yourself and before you know it you are not where you want to be and the realization hits you all at once whether its a health scare, a comment from a love one etc etc and then you start to make improvements and gyms are scary places for alot of people but nobody should ever be made to feel ashamed for attending one, dont nobody start off with a 6 pack and also dont assume that cos somebody is slim it automatically equates to health as it absolutely does not.