13 year old girl described as 'predatory' in court...

mackenzie said:
tidyman said:
bobmcfc said:
The guy was actually a barrister acting on behalf of the crown. He was prosecuting which is odd, who needs enemies eh

I think I will do a bit of research into this next time I'm bored at work.

I can't for the life of me imagine a scenario where a comment like that could do anything but hinder the prosecution case.

If he WAS on the prosecution side then that comment defies belief. It's almost negligent in the exercising of his duties.
If this was the case, perhaps he was trying to steal the thunder of the defence, i.e., "even though the girl is sexually active and initiated the act, it was your responsibility to say no and distinguish right from wrong". That's the only scenario I can think of to explain such a comment.
 
2sheikhs said:
mackenzie said:
tidyman said:
I think I will do a bit of research into this next time I'm bored at work.

I can't for the life of me imagine a scenario where a comment like that could do anything but hinder the prosecution case.

If he WAS on the prosecution side then that comment defies belief. It's almost negligent in the exercising of his duties.
If this was the case, perhaps he was trying to steal the thunder of the defence, i.e., "even though the girl is sexually active and initiated the act, it was your responsibility to say no and distinguish right from wrong". That's the only scenario I can think of to explain such a comment.

As I posted I thought the same; that the comment may have been taken out of context.
 
I think the special group of barristers and judges being set up to deal with these types of cases is a good idea,
it will be interesting to see if they appoint any women judges in this group.
The comments of the barrister sounded like classic victim blaming, from an establishment steeped in misogyny.
It reads like the comments were put forward to mitigate sentencing of the defendant.
 
bobmcfc said:
Ducado said:
bobmcfc said:
Maybe I will be glad when all forms of porn are removed from the net and society and I see no more pairs of bare breasts in my newspaper because I think we may have gone more than beyond the lowest level when we start queuing up to defend child molesters.

I see women sexualised all the time, it's normal now and we are seen as objects for men to ogle and we are never good enough for you if we haven't had our breasts enlarged to an abnormally overstuffed size. Every stretchmark, follicle of hair or blemish removed and even then we aren't good enough for you. We're too sexy, not sexy enough, too thin too fat. Is it any fooking wonder our little girls are so confused ? Too bent out trying to please men and a society where all you have to do is be perfect.

Men want sexy but then it's your fault for trying to be to too sexy and you asked for it. So I'd like all this stopped now so we can get back to a decent moral society when we know what wrong is. I'll happily take some responsibility for having a dress too short if you like, I'm a big girl i can take it but I won't ever ever accept a child being told she deserved it because she acted to sexy or older than she was.

Wobble your heads please !

You make some very salient points, and it was a point I made in the blocking of internet born debate, however it is wrong to actually blame all men because we are not all like that, I dislike porn nowadays as it's just a fantasy version of sex as we all know real world sex in nothing like what most porn portrays, it's giving people imposable expectations, perhaps if we had proper and grown up sex education in this country and could talk about the issues openly and honestly

I think the blame lies everywhere. Fashion industry, entertainment etc. I think kids want to grow upto quickly but they are kids and a
Can be forgiven for behaving in a silly way.adults need to be the ones who know the difference between right and wrong thinking, especially those in positions of power and ability to do something about it. Maybe my point was overly strong but when you hear someone say "13 year old slag" as a mother it does not sit right with me and I get agitated and defensive.

You could always move to North Korea?

You really do sound like a ratty old prehistoric hag at times. Your one of these people who thinks women are second class citizens compared to men and will do anything, no matter if what your saying it totally incorrect, just to make a woman sound better. It wouldn't surprise me if deep down you probably think Myra Hindley was innocent just because she was a woman.
 
rickmcfc said:
bobmcfc said:
Ducado said:
You make some very salient points, and it was a point I made in the blocking of internet born debate, however it is wrong to actually blame all men because we are not all like that, I dislike porn nowadays as it's just a fantasy version of sex as we all know real world sex in nothing like what most porn portrays, it's giving people imposable expectations, perhaps if we had proper and grown up sex education in this country and could talk about the issues openly and honestly

I think the blame lies everywhere. Fashion industry, entertainment etc. I think kids want to grow upto quickly but they are kids and a
Can be forgiven for behaving in a silly way.adults need to be the ones who know the difference between right and wrong thinking, especially those in positions of power and ability to do something about it. Maybe my point was overly strong but when you hear someone say "13 year old slag" as a mother it does not sit right with me and I get agitated and defensive.

You could always move to North Korea?

You really do sound like a ratty old prehistoric hag at times. Your one of these people who thinks women are second class citizens compared to men and will do anything, no matter if what your saying it totally incorrect, just to make a woman sound better. It wouldn't surprise me if deep down you probably think Myra Hindley was innocent just because she was a woman.
Oh shit!!! I hope Girlbob's gone offline for the night.
 
2sheikhs said:
rickmcfc said:
bobmcfc said:
I think the blame lies everywhere. Fashion industry, entertainment etc. I think kids want to grow upto quickly but they are kids and a
Can be forgiven for behaving in a silly way.adults need to be the ones who know the difference between right and wrong thinking, especially those in positions of power and ability to do something about it. Maybe my point was overly strong but when you hear someone say "13 year old slag" as a mother it does not sit right with me and I get agitated and defensive.

You could always move to North Korea?

You really do sound like a ratty old prehistoric hag at times. Your one of these people who thinks women are second class citizens compared to men and will do anything, no matter if what your saying it totally incorrect, just to make a woman sound better. It wouldn't surprise me if deep down you probably think Myra Hindley was innocent just because she was a woman.
Oh shit!!! I hope Girlbob's gone offline for the night.

So do I.
Because that post is simply embarrassing in it's sheer stupidity.
I don't agree with GirlBob on everything.
But I would take her side every day of the week against this imbecile.
 
nijinsky's fetlocks said:
2sheikhs said:
rickmcfc said:
You could always move to North Korea?

You really do sound like a ratty old prehistoric hag at times. Your one of these people who thinks women are second class citizens compared to men and will do anything, no matter if what your saying it totally incorrect, just to make a woman sound better. It wouldn't surprise me if deep down you probably think Myra Hindley was innocent just because she was a woman.
Oh shit!!! I hope Girlbob's gone offline for the night.

So do I.
Because that post is simply embarrassing in it's sheer stupidity.
I don't agree with GirlBob on everything.
But I would take her side every day of the week against this imbecile.

Which part are you not keen on?
 

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