kenzie115 said:
CTID1988 said:
Sexuality isnt just sex though. You can be gay and never act on it in your life, this choice rubbish you're spouting makes no sense
You're being very nit picky now.
If you're not going to act on it then no-one would ever know your sexuality so the point becomes moot. If a footballer's gay but chooses never to act on it then how would the opposition fans know he was gay in order to shout abuse? They wouldn't. And if he did choose to act on it, then for me, like any choice you make, you should be happy with it and not give a shit if other people disagree.
He's not being 'nit picky' at all, he's simply telling it how it is.
This 'choice' stuff you're banging on about doesn't make any sense whatsoever. You're obsessing about the physical act of sex, when that's just one part of being in a relationship.
What about a gay footballer who simply wants to be able to live happily and openly with his partner? Given that gay people have no greater propensity to fuck each other in their front gardens than straight people do, I imagine we'd never be privy to whether their partnership has been consummated or not. But we'd still know that they're gay.
To suggest that wishing to live a happy and fulfilled life is somehow a 'choice' is, frankly, absurd.