Advice needed

[journolud]

OP are you that ugly Swedish guy who couldn’t get a bird in disguise?

 

[manimanc]

First World Problems.

 

[urban genie]

Calous answer first, erm could it ve ascam? If your friend thinks so unless she has full details of where your friend lves and how anyone who found her corpse could find him, well they are on the other side of the world, so he should cut off contact and then live in the ignorance of never knowing if she topped herself or not but convinced she didn't and get on with life.



Caring and sensible answer, see if you can find family of a supportive group in her area and contact them letting them know. If it possible maybe see if you can get her to visit on a holiday isa and help her, or your friend goes to India see what the situation is.

As you have said you have spoken to family members then helping her in what ever way that is possible seems the human thing to do


I would go with the second answer if me.

 

[Tuearts right boot]

What's her mother like? And does she have any older sisters?

Owing to the fact thats she's dead, I would imagine her mums seen better days.

 

[brooklandsblue2.0]

I can but I am a bit worried about her doing something too. My friend is going insane and is genuinely so scared that he might have a panic attack anytime. That's why I am staying with him.

what are the consequences of having a “panic attack” - you’re making it sound like a big thing he can die from here.

 

[yeseye]

That's the best consecutive post I've ever seen on bluemoon, congratulations sir (Though it doesn't translate well as a multi-quote message)

His new found maturity almost lasted a whole minute!

 

[Nebuchadnezzar]

trust me, that story is 100% ... I really didn't think much of it when I got to the desk. But when the security handed over a letter, I was like wtf. I sat there reading it, with my wife next to me. Basically this lass followed me for the 5 days I was out there.

 

[GornikDaze]

We need Oakenshield on the case... he’s the expert in legit relationship handling

 

[willipp]

BTW I don’t think it’s a scam since my friend has talked to her on phone a couple of times and that’s how he slowly came to realize that somethings not right. The reason my friend liked her initially was because her mother died a few years ago.

She’s probably got a disabled brother as well that needs urgent medical treatment.

 

[dickie davies]

Is part of her extended family in the Nigerian military?