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I'm in a similair situation. I had symptoms on and off, then eventually an NSTEMI. At 46, as a non smoker and drinker, it's a bit of a shock. I've got diagnosis for this and that but never COVID, but I only ever took a handful of Lateral Flows, so god knows if I escaped that. The possible reasons play around in my mind an awful lot, but in truth I'll never know, and there are plenty of meds and things to concentrate on which I can do to help myself, diet and lifestyle. That's what I need to be looking at. I'm on the up and the moment - there's a frightening amount of up and down as I get better then get wiped out again, so I hope I'm not being insensitive. I was also lucky that my operation was a reasonable success - and in truth I don't know what your condition is.Please be careful everybody. I had Covid in the very early days, and for a long, long while afterwards I had some bad days feeling totally wiped out and exhausted. Tending the garden was too much for me. I put it down to long covid. Last summer I had a particular bad day and went to Stepping Hill. After tests there was no sign of Covid but they said "we are keeping you in you have a heart condition causing this exhaustion ". Up until then I never contemplated a heart failure. The hospital was overflowing with cardiac cases. I had an operation which has failed to solve the problem and don't know what to expect.( I can't get to the matches.) I will never know if Covid caused my heart to malfunction.
Still, I really want to give you the sense that there are things that will get better, that there are things to look forward too, and how important it is for our minds and bodies, that we keep looking at them, and the things we can do. You can get stronger, and you will be amazed what that means you can cope with.
Keep the hope alive, always. I don't know if you're on social media a lot. I am. There's an argument going round that constantly being involved actually prevents us from switching off, prevents us from really getting bored, and that's this is a terrible thing, because it's the real boredom that leads to us just discarding everything that's useless to us and starting over with a better mindset for the future. It takes up your mind's time, always thinking about things, the latest arguments that go round and round, when you should be dreaming quietly of nice things and places you can maybe do and go in the future.
I mean, I'd suggest putting on your thickest skin and joining the matchday forum. But in all honesty, my life has improved tremendously by avoiding it like the plague, lol.
I am pretty careful. I noticed with horror how people didn't take any care. Don't worry about things like that. Look after yourself. These situations do improve over time. We're like a giant herd. We swing from one direction to the other. From banging on pots and lockdown and all that, to a sort of "IDGAF" attitude. Over time, people realise they are best off somewhere in the centre.
Seriously. Good luck. Don't worry about another soul. You can't save them. That's the truth. People will do what they want, what they think best. Eventually, it works out anyway. It's just a distraction. These people, everyone, we all need you to look after yourself. Go with hope and cheer in your heart, my friend. And always remember that love transcends all of these problems. That's why we sing, "What will be, will be".