Bereavement

Sorry for your loss mate.
I lost my old fella 3 years ago in august age 73 (cancer)
I was in North Wales for the weekend and went into a local pub to watch City @ Everton away and a crazy coincidence,my dads old work colleague was stood at the bar who i’d not seen for a couple of years, chatting about my old man. I got the call at half-time to say he’s passed away.
We won for him though!
Time is a good healer mate, keep strong.
A mother’s love’s a blessing
RIP.
 
My mum died when I was 26, that's half a lifetime ago now, I still think about her every day, you'll never stop missing her, but it will get easier
 
The pain will ease in time, but you have to let the grieving process run its course. And, as I was told a few years back; remember the good times, bin the bad ones.
 
Lost my Dad a few months ago after a short illness, its a terrible thing to go through and miss him every day. There is nothing easy about the grieving process.
 
Just shed a few tears reading some of the comments.. For all you Blues who have had a loved one pass away and are struggling to come to terms I fully understand the pain and you have my deepest condolences .. We've have 2 close family bereavements in the last 14 months and even though you are in someway expecting the call at sometime to say that your loved one has died absolutely nothing prepares you for that 'thump in the stomach moment' when you actually get told the bad news

When you do get your head together after the shock news, you then feel like all forms of happiness is sucked dry from you and you genuinely believe that you'll never feel any sort of happiness or pleasure ever again.

The pain does get easier, you'll always miss your loved ones.. It's a slow process and everyone moves at their own pace... Let no one push or rush you
 
Condolances to all who have lost friends and family members.

My month so far has been nothing short of death. My Aunty died 70 from cancer. My neighbour of 30 years has died this week of cancer too and my childhood friend was found dead at the age of 36 in his house last Thursday died from drugs over dose. The next 2 days i will be attending 2 funerals. Its like i am walking and there is a dark cloud over my head. You try your best to remember the good times but tomorrow and Thursday will be hard days they will never be forgotten.
 
A sad thread and condolences to the op. Made me think as my mum is 70 odd and not in good health and I have not spoken to her in 4 years. Maybe time to make amends even if I have never got her.

Scary to see my old man getting older. He said to me today if we do the domestic treble I can die happy! Never been a bigger blue than him. Time to think.

Yes, give your old mum a call before it's too late. A lifetime of regret avoided. I'd give anything to be able to call my dad and talk to him. Been 20 years and I still miss him.
 

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