oakiecokie
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ChicagoBlue said:If the abuse is illegal, then use 911. If it is annoying, welcome to the world of living with neighbors. If it is annoying to the point of needing to SAY something, SAY it! If it is annoying, but not illegal, but it spoils the enjoyment of living in your home, call the council and file a complaint.
There is NEVER a good reason to follow someone down the hallway to the toilet and do him with head butt and fists. Walk away. THAT is what trained killers are trained to do. I doubt your mate would have followed him to the loo if he thought he might get a good hiding from the annoying neighbor.
As YOU SAID, the red mist descended on your mate. After that, all bets are off.....and, as I abhor personal violence, ABH in the bog followed by a sentence sounds about right. Sorry you mate sounds like he got stitched up for glossing the guy.....BUT if he had had a verbal altercation in front of others, perhaps witnesses might have testified to there being significant provocation, no glass or bottle used, and NO ACTION TAKEN, other than getting thrown out of the pub.
I wonder how you would have felt if your mate had gone to the loo and been jumped by some nutter neighbor with the red mist, ending up getting butted and twatted? No doubt the NEIGHBOR would have been a ****!
There is a line....taking a V in the face is on one side, butting a guy and twitting him after following him to the loo is on the other....regardless of the length of the sentence. Once you put yourself at the mercy of the court, YOU LOSE YOUR ABILITY TO CONTROL YOUR OWN FUTURE.....and your mate knew that going in.
Everything you say is so true CB,but at the end of the day its easier to say than do and I`ve snapped over lesser things in my earlier years.
Unfortunately its cost Ant big time and please note that he hasn`t been in trouble before as a 49 year old married guy with two children who are in their mid twenties.He snapped alright but how far are you able to control your emotions after several years of shit ?
As others on this forum have suggested,if no-one actually saw what happened,why didn`t he say he knew nothing.Because thats not Anthonys nature and irrespective of what others may say,the one thing he is not is a liar.