Both sides seem terrible at this 're-uniting the fans' business. They are expressing their fears and accusations in official public statements which in turn feeds the anger within both sets of supporters leading to more public negative discourse. I'd suggest they both STFU for a while and try and demonstrate that they can work together for the benefit of the fan base as a whole. It just looks like a complete shambles from the outside.
why not both clubs play at gig lane in a ground share ? then both enter the non league and just get on with it