It is very interesting reading about the different perspectives about what happened yesterday and the approaches that could have been taken, match on or match off. To be honest I was a broken man yesterday.
In November 2017 I was coming back from work, a GP. Finished early that day and was coming home in the car when my youngest boy called me and told me his brother had collapsed. Was home within in two minutes to find my wife doing CPR on my son. Truthfully as a doctor he was so cyanosed (grey) I thought he was gone. I just hit doctor mode and continued the CPR. I timed it and funnily it was 13 minutes before the paramedics arrived. The same time that Christian had for resus. We all worked in him for about another 30 minutes and so much was going in my head whilst doing the CPR which the paramedics asked me to continue as I was a doctor. How do I tell my parents their grandson has died,just very neagtive thoughts? The team that came was fantastic. Suddenly after 45 minutes my son got a normal heart rhythm, woke up, vomited and I was there to cradle his head and tell him it was all going to be fine. He ended up in St Thomas's Hospital, has a pacemaker and defibrillator in his chest and is alive and well.After over 30 years as a doctor saving my son was my greatest achievement.
He was lying on a rug in our living room that was covered in blood and vomit and I threw it out behind the garage and just could not bear to move it, just lying there for 4 years. We are moving house and yesterday morning had to move it as unsightly.Then Christian, which is also my youngest son's name, suffered the same trauma. I know, just coincidence but brought back bad memories.
I can see both sides of the argument for the match going on or being called off. Truthfully, after that experience I was in a complete daze. I suspect his family, the players, and even the fans would be in a total daze. I would have called it off. We live in a world where we all have an opinion and comment. Truthfully sometimes unless it affects you personally, it is hard to understand trauma.