Thanks. And it's more than possible that I could be seen as a blasphemer/heretic for writing as I do here - by the vicar you are married to. But I don't reallyI'm in an unique position of being married to a vicar and seeing how the church works (in isolation of a single church) through an agnostic's eyes.
I genuinely don't care about religion one way or the other as long as it doesn't impact negatively on anyone.
I'm only talking Church of England here, I have no real experience of other religions bar my education and experience from friends who follow other religions.
Most people who "find religion" do so as their life isn't going great and they find a community of people who want them to do better. It's the sense that people are looking out for them that draws them in. The vast majority don't believe the bible to be sacrosanct, but will go along with enough to keep them in the community they perceive is looking out for them.
It's bourne out of the fact that they've gone to someone (usually the vicar) and they've had time to listen to their problems and said some generic things that they can latch on to and they see that as solace.
It's generally because they don't feel alone anymore rather than the belief in God.
I tend to get involved with the community side of church only. They served Christmas lunch to homeless and isolated elderly people, which I happily supported. They are involved in the Fairshare project where supermarkets donate left over food that can be collected and given to the homeless.
Religion can do good, but for me only through name. The community is more important to me and if I can help vulnerable people through using the CofE name, I won't apologise for that.
know as I've never met them, so can't really judge. I don't mean to write here to say 'you' should do this or not do that..or that 'you' should believe this or not
believe that. Is more sharing what I have experiencing...if that 'speaks' to someone , then great...if it doesn't, then wonderful?