The crazy thing is if you want to make easy meals just get a slow cooker. Bang the ingredients in first thing, by the time the kids get home from school you can have stews, chilli, currys. At the opposite end of the scale, a stir fry with fresh ingredients takes less than 15 mins is inexpensive and full of veg, most of the westernised Chinese sauces are dead easy to make.
Im pretty sure most of it comes down to laziness and a couple of generations of not learning basic cooking skills. I wouldnt mind but there's thousands of videos on YouTube showing you how to do it, its not like the old days of a recipe book where you had to read and understand it.
One thing that does irritate me however is how outrageously expensive fish is in the UK. Half the problem is that unless its Haddock, Cod, Salmon or Tuna people wont buy it so it gets sold abroad.
Love our slow cooker, especially in winter, nothing better than knowing there's a nice beef stew waiting. It's not everyone though, and it's important to say that. Not every young person is a waster who can't be added, far from it. Not every parent is too busy to do things properly. But too many are and it's inevitable it's going to continue cost both NHS resources and rob years from lives. That's the cold reality. It's not an absolute, some very healthy people still get very ill, but being overweight is certainly a well known mechanism for accelerating illness.
It's also a coping mechanism too, and modern society suffers from a crisis of mental health despite the growing fact many are far too ready to take offense and find problems where none exist, we're also at a point where there so much crap and expectation on people that inevitably we cave in. That's ok, a day of binging or drinking or whatever, fine. But for many there is no balance.
We can take a look at that YouTuber BeardMeatsFood for an extreme example of discipline. Competitive eater, consumes thousands of calories for his videos, donuts, pizza as big as a table, all day breakfasts with more sausages than a Yates' wine lodge on singles night, yet relatively skinny. Because he eats minimally for days before and after, and his average calories intake vs usage is mostly balanced. Insane to think is he probably consumes less calories weekly than many average people, because one blow out on a burger with fifty patties and a kilo of chips is probably still less than day after day of bags of sweets, a McDonalds here, KFC there, twenty pints and so on.
It's far too easy to just go and buy crap too, there's a tesco or a Morrisons or something around every corner nowadays, and the cheapest things they sell will include the 800 calorie a bag crisps and sweets, plus don't forget the meal deals where you can have a sausage roll as your snack, alongside a blt and a full fat coke, consuming easily your dealing calorie intake in ten minutes. So easy, so convenient,a habit so hard to break.
Personally I do have a problem with this modern attitude of being ok and accepting everything and everyone regardless, love yourself whatever and it's ok to be overweight. Yes, respect as a person is due absolutely, regardless of appearance, but unhealthy is unhealthy and, like it or not, it will come back to bite us all at some point. Had a discussion with my wife about plus size models recently. Yes it more accurately reflects society to go down this path, and as a father of two girls I absolutely hate the idea of them seeing as the gold standard this beanpole, near skeletal, duck lipped, caked in make up image of beauty we've had in the past. But we shouldn't glorify obesity either. Its not good to be obese, it does have an effect eventually. It makes life harder for us and our loved ones, sometimes also taking them away from us early, and is ultimately a disease that we need to educate and legislate on.