As a Spurs fan, i have to admit they play some stunning football. Wenger's a great manager but there's still something immensely annoying about him - obviously the fact that he nevers sees anything but the main issue being that he never gives credit to other teams when it's due. Saying that, i hate Benitez more than Wenger.
The only gripe i have with their fans as a whole, and i know a fair few, is lots of them ooze arrogance. I had a chat with a couple of gooners before the Pompey game last week and they said they'd both be unhappy if they didn't beat them by at least 5 goals. I went to an Arsenal QPR cup match once and they were 5-0 up, i had a ticket in the Arsenal end with a mate, and one gooner in front of me got up and left shouting this is rubbish, wiltord's shit etc etc. I suppose it's inevitable successful teams brood their fair share of arrogant fans, i'm sure you'll get quite a few soon, and i'm sure we would if we started winning titles and cups etc.