Prestwich_Blue
Well-Known Member
You’re normally the font of solid common sense on here DD and there’s a lot of sense in what you say. Whatever happened that night, whether self-inflicted or otherwise, they’ve lost a child. I think you recognise that there was some element of being self-inflicted when they chose to leave their children unsupervised in an unlocked house.I also find the mob role, groupthink, lynch mob outrage about the McCanns disgusting. I mean variations on the phrase "They shouldn't have left them alone" must have been repeated literally billion of times over the last ten years. Do none of you pityless clowns not think that these people haven't considered that before?
Makes me sick. When I look back through the years I can think of many mistakes I have made which potentially endangered my children's lives. I almost had a 60 mph head on collision over Christmas with all three of my kids in the car because I was turning the radio over. I let my non-swimming boys go on a speedboat without a lifejacket once. I can remember my wife and I getting really pissed and sharing a bed with our daughter when she was only a few months old. We all make mistakes. They made a big one but the price they paid could not be any higher.
I know you and that you’re a good family man who loves your kids. Parenthood is a series of calculated risks as you’ll find out more and more when your boys get older. Crossing the road on their own, letting them go to school on their own or with their pals, letting them go out at night, go away on holiday, etc. But I was a bit surprised that you’d let two non-swimmers go out in a boat without life-saving equipment.
Fortunately nothing went wrong but if heaven forbid it had,people would feel terribly sorry for you but would also say “What was he thinking?” and many would say you’d been guilty of completely irresponsible behaviour as a parent. So I don’t think you can blame people for questioning them, particularly when there’s no clear evidence of an abduction and some of their stories just don’t add up.