I don't believe that, actually. With bingo extending for a long time, Gerrard knows his immediate future lies at Villa, or equal sized club. He needs to knuckle down and make a name and reputation for himself. If his side selection is iffy, or the players don't show, the Villa fans will see it.
There isn't anything more disrespectful to a footy fan than having a manager being 'on holiday' at their club.
They will play against Liverpool and City. Might even be easier for City as it will be the seasons last game. Maybe Villa have nothing riding on the game except pride.