If you look at it now, without any understanding of the history or context, then it's a very easy decision to lump all the blame on Israel.
So I can't blame you for that but I'd like you to explain this concept of Israel being apartheid to me because I simply don't understand it.
If you're an Israeli citizen, regardless of where you come from, your race, religion or ethnic background, you have the vote, you don't travel on segregated public transport, have separate beaches or rest-rooms. That isn't apartheid. So Muslim Arabs have full citizenship rights. That, to me, isn't apartheid. It would be if only Jews did however.
If you're not a citizen then you don't have the vote or any other rights as a citizen. And in the West Bank, they have segregated buses because of suicide bombers, who blew themselves up in shared buses.
If Israel were to formally annexe the West Bank, but deny the Arab residents a vote or any other citizenship rights, then the label 'apartheid' would be far more justified.