Never thought I would find myself doing this but....

[Seosa]

Re: Ner thought I would find myself doing this but....

Smash her back doors in.

Leave.

This, and make sure it's dry.

 

[SuperbiaInProeliaEL3]

Play her at her own game!

 

[Maintainin]

These should be the good times.

LEG IT.

...she'l kick the fuck out of him

 

[Blue Streak]

Re: Ner thought I would find myself doing this but....

How long and how often have you been spending time together?

This is a good question and I'm glad someone has asked because it's been most weekends from Friday through to Sun/Mon and often involved me staying at her's the night midweek as well. So quite a bit if I'm honest, she even said herself yesterday.

The I need space though has been played today when I've phoned her a few times and had no response so I've also sent a text or two. Basically all I wanted to do was say 'Hi' have a five minute chat and then get on with my day. Is that so wrong?

Piece of advice mate-DO NOT TEXT OR RING HER.

If you want out then get out but as soon she sees you are desperate (little texts,5 min chats) she holds all the aces.

For someone to feel they hold the aces after two months?

Seriously? Is that normal behaviour at such an early stage?

 

[Feed-The-Goat]

Re: Ner thought I would find myself doing this but....

This is a good question and I'm glad someone has asked because it's been most weekends from Friday through to Sun/Mon and often involved me staying at her's the night midweek as well. So quite a bit if I'm honest, she even said herself yesterday.

The I need space though has been played today when I've phoned her a few times and had no response so I've also sent a text or two. Basically all I wanted to do was say 'Hi' have a five minute chat and then get on with my day. Is that so wrong?

Piece of advice mate-DO NOT TEXT OR RING HER.

If you want out then get out but as soon she sees you are desperate (little texts,5 min chats) she holds all the aces.

For someone to feel they hold the aces after two months?

Seriously? Is that normal behaviour at such an early stage?

Not really no, and look through the thread, most of the replies have been similar.

If you keep asking yourself should i or shouldn't i, then its going to be harder.

 

[mammutly]

She might be worried about getting too close. Maybe she's just scared.

Or, she might be genuinely wanting to leave.

Either way, your best bet is to be clear about what you want, how you feel and then let her have the space.


Good luck, mate. These situations are hard.

 

[Maintainin]

 

[hgblue]

She might be worried about getting too close. Maybe she's just scared.

Or, she might be genuinely wanting to leave.

Either way, your best bet is to be clear about what you want, how you feel and then let her have the space.


Good luck, mate. These situations are hard.

One things for sure, if the lad keeps phoning/texting and coming across as a bit needy, she will fuck him off. His only hope is to give her the space she asked for and hope that she remembers what it was that she first saw in him in the first place. Easy advice to give, but not that easy to follow when you care about someone.

 

[2sheikhs]

Has she just come out of a long relationship Bluestreak?

 

[Bellamyend]

pushing for fights all the time isn't behaviour of someone who wants rid. added to the "I need space" statement what she is trying to do is (subconsciously perhaps) provoke a reaction from you. she wants a demonstration of your masculinity, and how much you love her. I think she's loved up.

either way, the other posters are correct; stop calling / texting - nothing worse

when she contacts you, just tell her how you feel - nothing too dramatic tho