I think it’s important not to sanitise what’s actually happening on the ground through the “Hasbara” lens. These aren’t just “tragic accidents” or “things going wrong.” A very large number of the victims aren’t Hamas fighters (70% +) but ordinary civilians and disproportionately children. In Gaza, over half the population are children, and they have made up a horrifying percentage of the casualties.
There’s hundreds of credible reports from human rights groups and eyewitnesses (doctors etc.) that have documented cases where civilians, including women and children, were deliberately shot by snipers. That’s not the same as a bomb hitting the wrong building – that’s targeted killing of innocents. When a child is shot in the head by a sniper while searching for food or water, calling it “collateral damage” is deeply misleading.
You’re right that Israel often issues warnings before bombing, but that doesn’t negate responsibility when whole families are wiped out in their homes, or when areas civilians are told to flee to are bombed as well. And unlike other conflicts, civilians in Gaza don’t have the ability to leave to safety, borders are sealed, movement is blocked, and people are trapped under siege - this had been the case prior to Oct 7th but maybe not as extreme.
As for your last point absolutely, Jewish people here should not be held responsible for the actions of the Israeli government, just as Muslims worldwide should not be blamed for the crimes of extremist groups. But acknowledging and condemning antisemitism doesn’t require us to look away from what’s happening to innocent people in Gaza. Both truths can and should coexist: it’s wrong to target Jews in the UK, and it’s also wrong and far more horrific that thousands of civilians many of them children are being killed, some deliberately by sniper fire and other nefarious methods.