Paternity test faked - advice

[Lancet Fluke]

Stay out of it and under no circumstances resort to law. Even if you were proven to be the father she could deny you access and, for any number of reasons, the Court probably wouldn't force her to allow you access. And what makes you think a confused child would want to see this complete stranger ?

So you'd be paying huge legal bills simply for the privilege of supporting the mother until the child leaves full time education.

If he doesn't do anything at this point and just leaves it then Jeremy is going to go apeshit at him and accuse him of not doing enough.

 

[Thaksins Love Child]

Let's call the OP "A" and the other bloke "B"

If the mother of the kids chases "B" for child maintenance for both children and "B" denies that the first child is his, then the mother will presumably chase "A"
"A" should deny that the child is his because of the DNA test.
If the Mother then says that the test was wrong, then "A" should go directly to his solicitor and take legal advice, which I'm pretty sure will be informing the Police of this matter
There is also the likelihood of criminal charges being brought against all involved in the fraud and who knew about it, Mum, Mum's Mum, brother and "B" with a very strong possibility of people going to prison
If you do have to talk to the Police, they will absolve you of all responsibility as you're the person who has been lied to. If they ask why didn't you come forward as soon as "B" contacted you and told you about a fraudulent DNA test, you just viewed the entire split between the Mum and "B" as being very bitter as it was when you split from her

My advice to the OP is very much as has already been said. Do nothing until you are contacted by the mother of the child. A few weeks or months will not affect your relationship with the boy if he is in fact yours

What makes you think she will contact me? Is that on the assumption she is chasing him for CSA money then will try it on with me? I can't potentially have a son and not do anything in the hope she one day comes to me.

 

[Thaksins Love Child]

Are these with the same woman?

These are with my current partner.

 

[dickie davies]

What makes you think she will contact me? Is that on the assumption she is chasing him for CSA money then will try it on with me? I can't potentially have a son and not do anything in the hope she one day comes to me.

Yes that's my assumption, because it very much sounds like the other fella ain't going to be paying a bean in Child support for the boy
He can't deny that the second child is his, so there will be a hearing and judgement made on his CSA payments. That's when the shit will hit the fan if he denies he is the father of the boy

 

[Gareth Barry Conlon]

What makes you think she will contact me? Is that on the assumption she is chasing him for CSA money then will try it on with me? I can't potentially have a son and not do anything in the hope she one day comes to me.

But you don't know if you're the father...

 

[mayo31]

These are with my current partner.

I asked my initial question because my response would have been if you potentially had 3 kids with 3 different women then you reap what you sow.

However as it looks like you are with a partner and making a go of things i think that you should sit back and wait.

As others have said. Things will pan out one way or the other.

I would not go searching for answers.

 

[Thaksins Love Child]

I asked my initial question because my response would have been if you potentially had 3 kids with 3 different women then you reap what you sow.

However as it looks like you are with a partner and making a go of things i think that you should sit back and wait.

As others have said. Things will pan out one way or the other.

I would not go searching for answers.

Not my style. My little girl is everything to me as will be my new arrival.

 

[mancunial]

Been through this more than once, take their advice sit back and wait, a lot of ladies will not think twice than to use the child to batter you with, her fresh brake up will be taken out on you also, if you react, wait and keep your cards close to your chest, tell no one nothing keep everything to yourself good luck

 

[Thaksins Love Child]

Been through this more than once, take their advice sit back and wait, a lot of ladies will not think twice than to use the child to batter you with, her fresh brake up will be taken out on you also, if you react, wait and keep your cards close to your chest, tell no one nothing keep everything to yourself good luck

He is 8 or 9. Her and her ex have been split 5 years so there is nothing to suggest to me she will ever make contact with me.

 

[dickie davies]

He is 8 or 9. Her and her ex have been split 5 years so there is nothing to suggest to me she will ever make contact with me.

So you're now saying that the bloke who contacted you and said the DNA test was fraudulent has been split from the mother for five years!
Who's been paying the child maintenance then?