I've had all day to think this over and I have softened a little.
Everyone fucks up.
I am not that far off of the age of Phil Foden. Throughout my life I have fucked up countless times. Very few of them have been with the intent of hurting or upsetting anyone. If Phil was my mate, I would hate the idea that he judges me on my fuck ups.
Phil should not have let those women in his room. End of. That was a fuck up.
Would I have done the same? Probably no.
Does that give me the right to judge him? No.
Foden is a remarkably talented footballer. Will this situation change that? I doubt it. I still believe and hope he has a long and successful career. I feel for his family and especially the mother of his child. They don't have it easy right now. Neither does Phil- he has a difficult and very upsetting path ahead of him. He'll come out the other end like Terry, like Rooney et al.
He's probably a big part of the future of the club we all love. This mistake does not change that. I only hope it never happens again.
Thanks.
Breaking the boundaries set up for their own safety was pathetic (considering their newly found status in the squad and on the cusp of a new season).
The suspected cheating on his Mrs, tw@ttish thing to do on the face of it but each and every couple have their own set ups so we shouldn't necessarily judge (who knows maybe they are 'flexible' in that department?). Regardless, the public nature of this will not be impressing anyone I imagine.
However, a quote from your decent post above has struck a chord with me;
'He'll come out the other end like Terry, like Rooney et al.'
Whilst you are probably correct to compare him to those individuals, I think I had higher hopes for the lad on and off the pitch and he has seemingly fallen to their comparison by the age of 20.
I wanted him to be better.
Do I expect too much from our players? Probably.
Should I just drop the bar so low that nobody can fall below that benchmark?
F#ck no - I can still remember how fuming I was that we were in advanced negotiations to sign either of those tw@ts.
I would have had an enormous problem if we had signed Rooney - I still hope for more from Foden............